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What are some examples of Neutral Stimulus? Can a toilet be a Neutral stimulus? A tree? I keep getting caught up on the word "stimulus" which in my mind wants to go to a bell, a buzzer. An action word.

note that being a strong man dosnt make you a toxic man as much as people these days would like you to think. Be a strong man!

when a war breaks out toxic masculinity is what you need to survive and win, and what defenseless people like women, children and elders will expect from men

Interesting

Do toxic femininity next.

Superb, indeed. 😅 Having a test on this, soon.😅

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Very informative and interesting.

Excellent presentation. I'm really enjoying your content. Interesting topics, quickly & simply explained, with clever use of images to reinforce understanding.

You explained it so easily and clearly,thank you so much!💗

Isn't I.D. pronounced "id" rhyming with rid, hid, bid//

Thanks

Your attempt to be neutral to this method is dangerous, and is giving it to much credits! There are no controlled study's that point out that FC really works, and there are a very great lot of study's that show that the facilitator is the author of the communication. This is confirmd in scientific reviews. A Abuse of Human Rights (because you pretend that the client is responsible for the messages while he/she isn't) or Stolen Voices (what the person tells with body language is replaced with what the facilitator manipulates). There are a lot of victims from this method, and the 'wishfull believers'. Both groups deserve better

Please stop using shitty ai thumbnails. This is a good video and the thumbnail just makes it look cheap and like an auto-generated video

Excellent presentation. However, there is another dimension of "control" too; and that is divine intervention/management of our affairs (a spiritual concept) ...

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I have a Behavioural Science (Psychology) degree & was raised by a mother with undiagnosed OCPD with comorbid moderate grandiose narcisstic traits who remarried a HSP codependent enabler with a fawning trauma response. This meant that they would fit the "disorganised style" that mental health practioners often use to describe parents who are very inconsistent (as I'm sure you would already know) b/c they oscillate b/w several styles. I'd describe their particular style as esp. COMPLEX & challenging in the following way: It was a highly critical & perfectionistic environment (OCPD), compounded with plenty of gaslighting & devaluation, as well as all the other usual narcisstic traits, such as grandiosity & dominance. Because I was the "Golden Child" till my mid to late teens (strong source of narcisstic supply), I had plenty of freedom outside the house (but felt very micromanaged in it, b/c of the underlying OCPD). This would not last though, because I would eventually become the "Scapegoat" as I entered my late teens & began to openly & strongly speak out against emotional abuse when I saw it, plus started to fall apart myself, showing signs of EXTREME pathological perfectionism, social anxiety, & depression (as well as a number of other psychological comorbities). This, not surprisingly, resulted in an ever increasingly more aggressive & critical parental style, as I got older. This also meant that healthy boundaries were NOT respected right from the start, resulting in a great deal of enmeshment, parentification & emotional incest during my early years, plus high levels of overprotectiveness, that collectively would fit the "Devouring Mother" type classification, as well as the typical "cotton-wool/snowplow/helicopter" parenting style. My stepfather, on the other hand, was far more consistent, but quite passive overall, largely operating under my mother's control. So as you can see, it was a very complex mix of individual & oscillating parental styles, which I still find incredibly challenging to this day. Before I (finally) go, I just wanted to congratulate you on the quality of your channel. I've only just started viewing your content, & find it not only very accurate (subject to the tight time limits you have imposed on yourself, obviously for the sake of your viewers), but also extremely clear & easy to digest for all audience levels. Well done. I will continue to work my way through your channel, viewing those uploads that interest me the most chronologically (yes, that's a rigid perfectionistic pitfall from my childhood, unfortunately). BTW: I'm very sorry about the incredibly LONG rant plus veering off-topic just a bit, but (as I'm sure you can tell), I have pretty strong emotions around the issue of parenting.

This video is great, really helped out and very nice and short. Video isn’t boring and voice is consistent and a great speed. Keep it up, you’ll come very handy this school year.

I have standards. Not settling. I listen to so many people who settled and are miserable. Nope.😊

Great video 3 Minute. Thanks for breaking this down succinctly.

Oh Jesus - that’s me single forever then - I’ve got 7 out of the 10 issues! Worryingly my ex has all 10 (or maybe 9 if I’m feeling generous).

The loneliness of being single or feeling the odd one out "can" evolve into exhilarating freedom!

Super informative videos❤❤❤

Very good points.

That's why I mainly read fiction.

This channel is going to rule the psychology world soon... 👍

Meaning in life comes when we freely engage in activities of giving and service to others without the personal need for any reward attached to this . This may be parenting , helping others less fortunate , nursing , community work etc .

Im waiting for the explanation about dreaming of Urinating and Pooping.😅

I wish it was easier to spot narcissistic behavior. But I guess that’s kind of the point. They want to disguise themselves until it is too late.

Funny thing is: I'm watching this video, not because I want to know if the other person has those red flags, but because I wanna know if I have those red flags.

Quality books? Along with note taking to truly understand what it's trying to convey Which is why I haven't read non fiction

Reading broadens your vocabulary a bit but I know enough people who read to know it defintely does not increase intelligence like many claim...

Amazing bro❤, straight to the content. High quality

This is fantastic! These 3 minute videos are allowing me to put into words what is happening within my self

Thanks for this fine compilation. Victor Frankels stance on meaning is capable of turning Abraham Maslows pyramid of needs around. Joseph Campbells elaboration on the monomyth seems useful for orientation in life as a 'heroes journey' following your bliss and finding meaning in crisis as chance for growth and development. I find happiness and humor increasingly important on my lifs journey and it seems simplicity is my way. A job I find meaningful and entertaining, a family and some bodywork. Simple pleasures, lifelong learmning and curiosity.

Hands up if you watched this video to work out the weaknesses of intellectualising so you can more effectively address them

I have all 🦇

This style also relies on the fact that your team is 100% reliable if you give them freedom. Some are just not wired that way and require some micromanaging...

Stop using A.I.-generated thumbnails.

Short 3 second version of this video: “because it’s hot as fuck” 🥵

Isnt this like superior to defense mechanisms because its not cope?

All emotions stem from a persoective about how the world works and what a person values. So, if you propose a person not solve their emotional issues through intellect, how then should they solve their emotional issues?

10. Why would anyone stay in an entire relationship if the other doesn't actually love them? 9. Depends OF the career imo. 7. Warranted after too long. 4. This should have been discussed early in the relationship. It's an entireyvalid reason to leave if one or the other isn't in agreement. 1. Depends on the friends and whether their activities are noxious in general (dangerous activities, excessive substance consumption, etc.) or deliberately undermining an otherwise healthy relationship. The rest are true.

Anybody else find that writing hand distracting?

#6 and #3 are the same.

Its deeper than low self-esteem, its fear of abandonment 🥴🙃🏎 veteran here! yet I'm not anxious as Im trustful and I even don't care at all when Im next to the person, I'm carefree because I have consistency confirmation and nutricion. In the emptiness I over desrealize.

YEAH SO TRUE, I AM SO SMART BUT NEVER AVAILABLE FOR ANYBODY....AND ITS GREAT

Yeah, whenever I'm the worst mood, I listen to sad music to calm me down.

loving your content good stuff!

What about reading a book so that I don't have to talk to anyone?