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Want to find *REAL* Confidence? DITCH the Bad Advice & DO THIS! | WINTER ARC
It took me 12 years to figure out how to be confident within myself. And NO, not the "fake it til' you make it" type of confidence, but the REAL, UNBREAKABLE confidence that takes HARD WORK to obtain. With 60 days left until the new year, your WINTER ARC starts now!
In today's video, I am opening up about my own experience with insecurity, my lack of confidence when it came to my appearance, DEBUNKING horrible, but common advice on social media, and sharing with you guys practical tips that you can implement for the next 60 days that WILL change your life.
Make sure you subscribe, like, and hit the bell, so you don't miss any future videos!
CHAPTERS
0:00 - Intro
0:51 - part 1: my experience with insecurity
4:21 - dunking horrible advice
10:10 - 60 day guide to REAL confidence
#confidence #winterarc #videoessay #growthmindset #commentary #personaldevelopment #selfconfidence
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  • @newmoonmama
    @newmoonmama ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yes yes! Same 🫣

  • @BriLewis-m8m
    @BriLewis-m8m 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this! ❤️

  • @AlexandraAnnette
    @AlexandraAnnette 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Real af. I hope you and ur husband go on a trip together soon!

  • @Greenleesgirl
    @Greenleesgirl 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you!

  • @r-e_mii
    @r-e_mii 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    While "asthetic" is a word, it wasnt one that i heard often growing up. We had a panicked mom who would say dont mind the mess if someone stopped by randomly even though it wasnt messy to us. I would love to have what i see however its not attainable now or maybe ever but thats ok.

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      My mom was crazyyy. Whenever someone would come over, if there was a crumb on the counter we'd have to clean the whole house from top to bottom.

  • @lien2713
    @lien2713 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    When I became a Christian, it was God who changed my heart to stop watching movies or series that involve magic and sorcery. I used to watch Charmed, Harry Potter, Supernatural,... I don't do that anymore. Same for the fact that I don't listen to worldly music anymore. What I do want to say is that God put this on my heart not to do this anymore. This also happened gradually, not overnight. This is different for everyone and at a different time and I didn't stop watching because others said so. God bless! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      God bless! I currently watch Harry Potter, and my husband and I are watching supernatural right now (I watched it in highschool and he's never seen it before!)

  • @3as1
    @3as1 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Normality is no longer a word???

  • @1MonicaW
    @1MonicaW 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mystoreysofstories
    @mystoreysofstories 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That’s your salary on minimum wage in Canada? Dang. In America it would be about $15,000 a year, pre-taxes.

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      hahaa, actually I think I'm wrong. That was my salary as a Personal Support Worker LOL. Pre-taxes, I make maybe 21,000. But less because of all the taxes we have here in Canada

  • @babyalivesandmore1824
    @babyalivesandmore1824 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love that you highlighted the real in your life!!! So many people are living for other people. So many people are blinded by the smoking mirrors of others lives!! New sub here! keep pushing God has your back!🫶🫶🫶

  • @miladkhazaie9240
    @miladkhazaie9240 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @stacy-annmorgan6685
    @stacy-annmorgan6685 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When I was in my early 20s I used to follow lots of these channels and was essentially wasting money on certain things. I changed what I consume over time and now I see all this for what it is. We really are richer than we think and we don’t need lots of stuff. I spend most of my money on good food now. I love food so yeah.

  • @AthaTeam
    @AthaTeam วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great great great video and content!

  • @Veganvirginjourney
    @Veganvirginjourney วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you for this ❤

  • @Haiokbai
    @Haiokbai วันที่ผ่านมา

    My in laws lived with their parents for a few years and recently bought a house! So proud of them for their temporary sacrifice. Very wise.

  • @m31samuelwilliams11
    @m31samuelwilliams11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen 🙌

  • @alisonlawrence2636
    @alisonlawrence2636 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am in this place now, too, as a writer and blogger. Thanks❤

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm a writer as well! It is hard! I've self published once, and am working on another devotional!

    • @alisonlawrence2636
      @alisonlawrence2636 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @susannahfriesenofficial That's wonderful! Don't give up. It's a lonely but rewarding task if done for the Lord. Sometimes so hard, because we want people to read and like our books. As writers, we want affirmation, and it does help and bless us, but ultimately, our affirmation comes from the Lord. :)

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alisonlawrence2636 absolutely! thank you so much for this!!

  • @dominikaaJ
    @dominikaaJ วันที่ผ่านมา

    finally someone said it honestly ❤ hi from Slovakia ❤

  • @soul8539
    @soul8539 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When I go to shop and I ask about the things I want to buy the salesman start to talk about the styles and sort of on but I cut him quickly give me the cheapest cause that all matter to me to do it’s work and be cheap so I can afford it

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial วันที่ผ่านมา

      hahaha they probs just want the commission because thats how they are paid! I can't blame them though

  • @soul8539
    @soul8539 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @opeshiamaggiepeters5237
    @opeshiamaggiepeters5237 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really great video. Thank you for being real. God Bless 🙏🏽

  • @trae4529
    @trae4529 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I stopped 90% of social media when an influencer in a video I was watching kept going on and on about how she was so excited to “style her pantry” in her new house. The absurdity of styling one’s pantry-- it’s the INSIDE of a cupboard, ffs. I hope we’re finally starting to see the beginning of the end of influencer driven over consumption.

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial วันที่ผ่านมา

      LOL man. Styling a pantry?? Like sure okay, if you have the means then do whatever, but I think going on and on about it, is absurd

  • @cindynader
    @cindynader 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m Muslim and we share the same beliefs ❤8:55 being humble is very important in Islam. We should never elevate ourselves to be higher to look down upon ppl. Love your content!

  • @BeTruYu
    @BeTruYu 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video is so needed! Thank you for sharing this Susannah and normalising normal life! ❤

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro
    @SuperMar10GalaxyBro 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YES!!! 🙌

  • @thisIsTheDayTheLORDHasMade
    @thisIsTheDayTheLORDHasMade 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    9:28 I agree with what you said but I want to add that if you get ready in the morning you'll probably be more productive..

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree, it does! However! Productivity is a whole other topic! I can say that getting ready in the morning does increase productivity. However, just because you wear nice clothing, or have your makeup done, doesn't fix deep-rooted insecurity issues :)

  • @A.RBradburn
    @A.RBradburn 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I find that instead of doing an aesthetic, (Cottage core specifically) I end up scrolling endlessly through Pinterest and end up doing nothing to change my lifestyle

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      haha! the amount of pins I have on my pinterest board is crazy. I can relate!

  • @SimplyBeautiful516
    @SimplyBeautiful516 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was listening until a minute into this you actually said that the “ sad reality is. . . that most people don’t live like that “ You seemed to contradict your own message by calling it sad. I’m not trying to be picky, but it’s NOT a sad reality. It’s a beautiful reality.

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not contradicting at all. It's a sad reality that most people are struggling to survive, pay rent, pay for food on their table, and living paycheque to paycheque. Sorry, but to me (and most) that is a sad reality.

    • @SimplyBeautiful516
      @SimplyBeautiful516 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your gracious response. My sincere apologies for misunderstanding your point. To my mind , when coupled with your previous statements, it sounded like the sadness came from not having Pinterest worthy homes and lives. I truly am sorry to misunderstand your thoughts.

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SimplyBeautiful516 It's totally okay! I could see how that could be misunderstood.

  • @missginaanna
    @missginaanna 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing video

  • @parksoyeon9372
    @parksoyeon9372 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I miss life before social media 💔

  • @Trita-wg4nw
    @Trita-wg4nw 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Olive top lady is beautiful ✨✨

  • @LouiseWears
    @LouiseWears 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Susannah for this video. It was just what I needed to hear today 🫶

  • @ExplorerAUDIO
    @ExplorerAUDIO 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That from a person with the exact same living style and three handbags hanging in the background.

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      three discounted handbags i’ve had for years, and I live with my in-laws so i’m kind of limited on how I can decorate my husband and I’s room.

  • @aniapaczosik319
    @aniapaczosik319 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Susannah, greetings from Poland ❤️

  • @nathannelson7778
    @nathannelson7778 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God love you

  • @scorpiongirl9126
    @scorpiongirl9126 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for sharing. I feel the same ❤❤

  • @dmhq-administration
    @dmhq-administration 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would NEVER "judge" you! I live with chronic/severe health issues and I'm just STARTING to buy thr stuff that I need/want! I COULD GIVE A FUCK WHAT ANYBODY ELSE HAS TO SAY ABOUT IT! I JUST got a credit card for the first time in My life!

    • @susannahfriesenofficial
      @susannahfriesenofficial 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      my husband and I also have chronic health issues, but i’m so glad you are at the point in your life where you can do that!