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I am concerned as well because I know that all my husband and I have is each other and if he should go first, I’m on my own and he’s actually in better health than I am so I might not have to worry about it for myself but for him for sure. I wanna scale down big time right now and move to an area. That’s close to all the necessities that I would have but my hubby is stubborn and he’s not willing to budge. I’ve also heard about renting rooms and things like that, but I live in a remote area and I can’t imagine anybody wanting to live here.

Can the makers of these vids at least listen to the narration to avoid/edit out glitches like that at :56 secs with the numbers.

Our daughter gave us up after a lifetime of getting everything she needed and wanted. We spent a year in pain. Now… we took her out of our will, and she can go. We are the ones that are free. Free from wondering when the next phone call will come wanting something. Free from her lies. Free from everything. Yes, it still hurts. But, we don’t have much time left. Not going to let her take it from us.

- 02:33 Walk 20 minutes daily to improve mood, energy, and health. - 05:40 Add more vegetables, legumes, and whole grains. - 08:07 Start with crossword puzzles or new hobbies. - 10:32 Connect with friends or neighbors weekly. - 13:11 Practice a bedtime routine to improve sleep quality. - 15:41 Try 10 minutes of deep breathing or meditation daily.

Taking care of our hygiene is such a simple yet powerful step toward a healthier, longer life. Thank you for the reminder

I saw a carer kick my father on the floor I went to thier boss who said I was a liar two weeks later they rang me sorry we bought your dad to hospital he gave himself some bruises they starved him in the end they simply ethuanased this humble kind loving man this has happened to many people in australia

PS. The global coarsening of society has been making it less desirable for me to "socialize"....and I find myself investing even more time in my personal & spiritual growth. Blessings to all.

Some grandparent s have not only brought up their own children but helped care for and raise grandchildren even tho they could have built a life having a level of fitness for themselves. They for went this as they thought the young had more financial stuggle when in a lot of cases children expected to have it all. Not all of course . Then when not quite so agile and healthy these same grandparents are left on sideline. I felt lost when no longer needed. I went volunteering . Enjoying company of people same age and ideas. As well as doung good. Im lucky my children and grandchildren are my friends as well. But l hear a lot of hurt from others. But we support each other by listening and caring.

Thanks for the reminders...

When each of my seven children were born I said, “Lord, please give them joy, make them hard workers, and help them leave the world a better place than before they were born. Help me teach them to be blessings.” All of them are adults now. The youngest are 20-yr-old triplets and my oldest is 39. My two oldest daughters (snowflake millennials, very self centered and entitled) decided they didn’t want to be a part of my life for a few really foolish reasons. It hurt me at first. Then l reflected. The prayer I had said at their births, had it come true? They are people who derive pleasure out of their wholesome lives. They’re each self-sufficient and they care very deeply about helping others. Never once had I said, “Oh, and God, make them love me forever.” They are each amazing people, each in their own ways. And they’ve all surpassed my biggest hopes, dreams and prayers. My being in their lives is simply icing on the cake.

It might be difficult but THEY took the job, they knew what it would entail, so do it. But for modesty things, something a Son never wants to have to do, I could shut my brain off and clean my Mother if I HAD to. Who changed my diapers, cleaned up puke, took care of my snotty nose? Who helped me when I went through colds, flues, chicken pox, mumps?... I did not ask for this, they DID ask for their jobs...

This happens in womens life at all ages..

Very useful and true information. A bit touching too. Again this is a question of culture and education. Societies in Asia and Africa do not have this problem in general. There may be certainly exceptions. At the end of it all its human nature says it all. Igratitude and selfishness should be overcome with a sense of responsibility and duty. There is a striking passage in the holy book of the Muslims namely the Quran which says:" Do not abandon yojr parents in old age as this the biggest sin. Remember they cared and looked after you when you were young. Also no matter how much you tbink they annoy you do not utter one word of 'uf' to them. Remember how patient they were with you throughout your growing life". Religious teachings if learned with earnestness helps too.

I haven't yet lashed out expecting,I hope and pray I don't ever expect anything from my children for rasing them. I look to God and pray for for them and myself. I just let them be, and do as mentioned. Thank you ❤

9 there is a shortage of staff because the corporation or the agency running the home will not pay people what they are worth and don't want to spend the money to hire enough people. both the residents and the staff suffer

this presenter has a mental problem "deepen a relationship with oneself??? 🙄

Sometimes you have to wake up and notice. There are young people who treat us with care who aren't related to who feel more like family.

When you raise your crotchling to be disrespectful 🙄it’s on you!!

NOT EVER ONE IS ANGRY?

You sound like me. I grew up in the 60s and my mother is worse. Fear was a nursing home. I never put her in a home. I went to live with her and took care of her for eight years until she passed away. I still miss my mom. You’re a great daughter.

After breaking my back I tried the blu and white toilet wand. After much trial and error the main issue with this was getting the tissue to stay put and if I'd did remain in place the tissue was difficult to release. I ended up returning to a long handled BBQ tongue as recommended by a physiotherapist. Best wishes in finding something that works for you ❤

I woke up this morning, and the first thing that popped into my head was that I wanted to write my mother‘s obituary and read it to her before she leaves this world. I want her to know all the beautiful, amazing things she’s done for me, my siblings, my father, and my community. I know she frequently sits at home alone, waiting to hear from her children. I want to say I’m sorry to all of you parents out there; you taught us to be strong and go out and grab the American dream. You educated us but didn’t have much time to communicate because you were doing the same. Please consider that your children love you, but they’ve got caught up in some loop trying to find the dream. We are all only human having a human experience. God gave us this life to live to our fullest, and I encourage you to live it to your fullest. Plant that garden, adopt that pet. Allow nothing but love to fill your heart until it radiates and mirrors back to you the same energy you’re giving out. God loves us all. 🙏❤️❤️❤️ I’m cleaning up from two hurricanes but I’m going to make sure I’m there for my mother’s birthday, February 9. Also Shaky Graves day in Austin Texas. wish me luck to make it there in time. 🙏 My mother has lots of years left in her. At least a decade❤❤❤Maybe that’s the problem with my generation, maybe we always think there’s more time and your generation is feeling time differently.

People have no aged well. My siblings 8 in total have gotten grouchy and resentful. Alcohol and politics added to the insanity. I rather be alone

When my daughter went no contact i wrote to her telling her how much i love her and that if being happy means a life without me in it, then so be it. Its killing me, the pain, the grief, i miss her so much. We were always so close. The only time i get to see her now is in my dreams.

For many seniors the path to 80 was a struggle and overcoming that struggle at this age is just to much for the reward.

Change your will

I dont have the time or energy to fight or argue with children especially those that i raised and took part in raising my grandchildren. Time is short and its their loss. My son said i just want you to know that when you die i will not go to your funeral. Which i responded. Thats ok i wont be there either. I am not about to stoop to his level. I love my children emensly but i can't make them love me back. Hopefully i can one day have a relationship with him but i won't hold my breath. I don't ask myself anymore what i did? Because i know what i did. I said NO after years of always saying yes to their every request.. actually i am happy with my life. Free at last free at last.

You are full of it . There is a lit of older women's that smells much better than most younger women. You are full of crap. Don't get older remain young you will see and feel. You ought to be ashamed of yoyrself. Stop this campaign on older women. Seems you are secretly jealous of older attractive women. Disgraceful woman you are. Stop THIS !

I’m so sick and tired of people’s BS. I’ve had a belly full and I’m happy to stay home and away from it.

Not all nursing homes are the same... I live in Australia and I am a carer for someone who is a chronic alcoholic, heavy smoker and all he does is sleep or watch t.v... I have been caring for him for 8 years and 4 months .. Looking after him is affecting my mental health..

Really? Can you not just tell your friends you don’t do stairs?

At age 73, while I appreciate “comfortable clothes”, I’m still going to dress in a timeless wardrobe. I’m going back to a 1950’s wardrobe which has many elegant choices and jewelry and hats are a must and colors are a must too. I refuse to blend into the wall when I know I look and feel good when I’m dressing up for the day. I don’t dress for people any more….I dress for ME….and I always get compliments. No slob-ware for me.

I am a vibrant 70 year old with a fullfilling full time profession. The only way to sustain the vibrancy is with a strict routine and minimal socializing. I have always been an introvert, and treasure solitude which buoyed me even as a child. I am grateful and realize my life, as well as the audience of this video, are lucky enough to contemplate this instead of struggling financially or health-wise or situation-wise. We are not aging in Gaza or Haiti or Sudan. Happiness to all.❤

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Aaaaaahhhh! Im alone to do as I please 😂

I consider these things as things we stop pursuing and other things we embrace when we reach maturity, not advanced age. I've tried to be a careful early adopted, not regarding trends, but doing what makes sense to me.

Wonderful Video ,It's lovely to know that I am not alone,Most definitely a ( 9 ) UK

All of this is totally true;and it is indeed my life ,and love every minute of it. I love my own company , I do host nice quiet dinner parties with close friends, but as for parties and music and lots of people ,no thank you. Gardening, and lots of jobs in and around the house is my Shangri-La. 75 and counting👍😃😃

9.precius advice. My blessings and prayers for you 🙏 ❤️ it.

I was in my early 20s and did the same thing

Best thing ever ! I'm 76 years young and my children no longer call me with their problems. They figure out their own lives. Of course they are both in their 50s 🤣🤣 My grandsons are in their 30s - they call their parents. Again I'm off the hook. I am now a great-grandmother. Baby calls me so I can sing to her. Who said there is no heaven! 💖💖

All good and well but sadly some of us have no breasts /no bottom and are very very skinny...what do we wear? Just curious....every help video is about losing weight and/or for people who have weight even in excess....would love to see a video on how to put on weight/dress etc

No expectations , everything is a nice surprise

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Deeply appreciative of shafing this video! It is worth wztching and sharinh. Loo,i g vkrward to watch video of yhis qualyy. God bless you and your faIly

This video shares insightful tips on staying calm and dignified when facing disrespect or neglect from children

I’ve gone all the way through this painful gauntlet and what gave me back my original happiness and peace was the fact that it’s mine and you can’t take it! I think of it as Human Patriotism.

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