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I’ve been single for so long that I just don’t know if it’s worth to continue to try and find someone to date. I’m tired of competing and burning energy when it doesn’t get me anywhere. I wish we didn’t have to live in a world where this was the reality.

You want to leave and what???? Just leave you already know deep down they dont value you so love yourself more than you love them and LEAVE DONT THINK ABOUT IT JUST GO IN PEACE you will thank yourself afterwards

I have a facial deformity. No money for surgery. Everyday has been a misery, 25years. I really don’t know how I haven’t thought about “ you know what “

Music is sooo distracting

No Guilty I know this They were blamed & Punished for any little thing Very Strict Father Submissive mom Its sad because they won't be accountable because Guilt breaks there heart I loved one It effected me because I was bought up with no excuses and if you did it you claimed it..A Man that doesn't say Sorry to a Woman is not going to be Happy because once someone never says sorry they will do unloyal things and not care..Like they have a Green light to do whatever Not Guilty 😂

If you are handsome you are also more likely to be cheated😢

I'm so broken...I don't want to choose

I’ve never dated - always rejected never accepted

I cheated on my gf and the immense guilt and remorse I have is overwhelming with the shame, embarrassment, and disappointment. She let me give her all of my heart and I took all of hers. I hurt her badly and the pain of knowing what she going through just stacks on top of everything else. I thought she was the one and I’m not sure how to move forward with my life. Since me and her broke up I’ve have many panic attacks, drug addiction, no appetite, restless, and, a deep hatred of myself. I got so deep in my feelings that the only thing I had was a vape (I don’t vape js bought it) and I kept smoking it and overdosed on nic. I hated the feeling but it was better than living in the pain. This was three days ago and I od yesterday too. She called me last night and I asked if she was going to have sex with someone else to get revenge to me bc she knew I loved her still. She said she hasn’t done anything with anyone but she was talking to someone Alr. I realized that I’m spiraling into a place of darkness that could be hard to get out of. The plans I have right now is the be clean and try to find a religion so I can get close to god. This is something that I’ve been having to take on the chin and my chin feels like it’s falling off rn. How do I move forward with all of these emotions.

Wait! This video should have an endless amount of likes. Thanks!

Thank you.

Ugly guys, like me, just give up! Too much work, heartache, etc. The trade off isnt worth the risk!

Such a wholesome video

❤❤❤

random her accent and voice sounds very similar to Naomi Campbell.

It used to be women who acted like this but i realized that this is the new reality even for full azz grown men also 😂

Jesus was the center of attention and still wants to be hahah jk jk God bless u

Thank you so much i honestly need help with this. The woman i want to be with , has been BADLY hurt. I am excited to help her and stick with her through thick and thin

I have cured the symptoms of RJ OCD. Stll… I left her. Because it was values based. I have a romantic history, even though I could have been a player. I cannot be with someone who embraced hookup culture, even if it is trauma related. I deserve better that what it brings to the table (the various humiliations, through her anecdotes or even places you cannot go with her because of the risk of bumping into past hookups…). I am now deeply in love with a woman with whom I share the same approach to intimacy: that sex is everything but casual.

No. Attractive men get free passes by woman. If short bald ugly men said things a 6 foot handsome man says, same exact thing, the short guy is creepy and the tall guy is charming. Those are facts.

Just saying the thumbnail is upsetting

Thanks for this video. New Subscriber❤ He is going to spend Christmas without me. I will be all alone 💔

Yeesh, what's with the insanely loud and annoying music

How to deal with this 😢

Why do these always feel from females pov? Men aren't starved for affection?

Is it just me, or does he look a bit like Shwartzenegger?

If you’re unattractive just go p4p Otherwise find a gold digger which is another form of p4p Or else masturbate responsibly 😅

A lot of talking. Not saying much.

Bullshit

You're too handsome to understand

i was in a continuous downward spiral with drugs and alcohol. she was a perfect person for me, it was genuinly a perfect relationship, but i just got so bad with my self destructive tendencies i did it knowing it would shatter everything. I cant believe what I did, and now she’s gone. I’m forever a person who transgressed that boundary. I genuinly feel as though i’ll never forgive mysef

I can’t wait till this all ends.

How do u know tho? I don’t get why average looking ppl keep talking about how ugly ppl feel

People are lovers of self. Women especially in western culture it is about what they deserve. They deserve happiness and living their best life. Both men and women have to put the others needs ahead 9f their own. Serve one another first

You lost me at “a labyrinth of complexity”

You piss off women if you’re ugly. I don’t give a fck how much game you have. Most will run away if you try to approach the rest will ignore you. Even if they ugly themselves. If your ugly guy the only girls going talk to you is the one at convenient store because she has no choice.

If I’m gonna say something bad about them, I’m gonna say it straight to their face

Imagine talking behind somebody’s back that’s pathetic

Can't take this guy as an authority on the topic. He's not ugly.

Confidence comes from positive expériences … positive expérience Côme from prettyness or … confidence

Dude, you WAY overcomplicating this. Attractive women do not like unattractive men because they are unattractive. That is it.

Thank you for this ❤

Interesting that a handsome buffed guy talks about dating if you are unattractive. Obviously he has never experienced what he is talking about

Can’t believe this doesn’t have more views!! Thank you for the advice

I lost the love of my love because he couldnt take my need for constant reassurance anymore. He swore he'd stay by me and we'd figure it out, but he chose himself over me and left. I was with my boyfriend for 13months. Wonderful man, beyond my dreams. He really saw me for me. This is my first everything I am 37(f). I have anxiety, he knew this from day 1. He said he was patient and could handle it. I was always stuck in his past (retroactive jeslousy) and always fishing as he called it. We were om the same page in regards to goals and timelines. After month 10 I moved in. In the 4mths we lived together I couldn't stop fishing. I constantly sought reassurance I wanted him to say specific things at specific times. I didn't see it as control, but love but understand how it looks. He always said things on his own and asked me everyday to pls just be in the present moment that let things happen as they will. He reassured me saying things like I'm not going anywhere, I was the one. I had a great relationship w his family they all said I take care of him so well and I look at him like no one ever has. With the exception of my anxiety I was a great gf. His needs were all met as I could tell and he always said I took good care of him. He was in hospital 1 mth ago and I didn't even think twice about getting him better. I cooked, cleaned, shopped I got up early so he didn't have to make his lunches for work. We truly had something magical. As my anxiety got worse I decided ok I need therapy before I lose him. I had one session(finances and scheduling got in the way). I was dedicated I said I will get better. I tried to go to him less, I tried to self soothe but I didn't have the coping mechanisms so I kept going to him. He is very mild mannered, never raise his voice, kind to everyone. In the past 3mths he yelled at me 3 times. He said he couldnt take the getting angry anymore. We had a fight I apologized bc it was the same thing: went to dinner w his bro and sis in law they were asking direct questions about our future to which I was answering and he wasn't saying a word so I got in my head in a loop and on the way home he asked if I was mad. I said yes I was immature i said I was hurt and I said why don't you want to talk about our future. He got mad and said he was done. He asked me to leave our apartment ( he pd the rent I paid flr everything else) my name wasn't on rent etc but I said no one is leaving I wanna talk it out. He warned me from day 1 he never goes back to an ex, once the relationship ends it ends for a reason. But I thought I was different bc he said I was the one, he never lived w anyone, his family loved me. He said i wasn't the person he fell in love with anymore that I became my anxieyy and I crushed us. He said while he's loved me the most out of anyone he didn't like the person he was becoming (angry, having to constantly reassure me). I don't feel this is valid enough to leave over. If I was that special and different give me time to get more therapy and get the skills to.stop doing what I'm doing to hurt you. I would never leave. I don't get how you loved me, promised me you weren't going anywhere he saod this daily and then the night of the breaking up said he LOVED me past tense...how is he okay without me, how is our future gone bc you don't like who you are when youre annoyed sometimes...isn't the good stuff far out weighing the bad. I begged, pleaded I said I'd do therapy 5x a week, I'd stay w my parents so we can work on it. He said no, he's never coming back and that I had opportunities to improve the last few months. He said he no longer had to justify staying. I hope he didn't mean it when he said he wasted the last year with me, i wasn't his problem anymore and he'd rather be alone than with me. I need help, I've been calling texting since it happened and no response. He says I cant accept the breakup, to grow up and move on but I cant I truly felt he was the great love of my life. Everything else was wonderful. Why couldn't he stay. why didnt the good outweigh the bad for him I truly don't understand why you chose to breakup instead of fight for us. He said I was the one, that he loved me the most out of anyone he's ever loved; my anxiety and need for constant reassurance made him lose all his patience for me and he ended it after a fight about the same issue - i wish fishing for him to say something (which was stupid bc i know he felt it) i was just in a anxious loop and needed him. I dont get why you give up especially when i had just started therapy. I begged, pleaded, cried, i did everything i could while in the relationship (he said he was 99% happy and he wasnt going anywhere almost daily). Why if all of that was good, throw us away for the 1 bad %... He will not talk to me...i finally stopped trying to reach out, but i wish he'd listen...He has a rule that he doesnt go back to any exes, but i thought i would be different since i lived w him and we had plans that he never did with anyone else

Why do I feel as if you don't really know what you are talking about. No offense.

What I found most concerning about the original video is that the notion being pitched paired with even just some confirmation bias installed via a light coaching session probably would seem like a functioning strategy to ALOT of people. Once the outcome being pursued appears to have landed a few times... BOOM You're trapped in a symbolic house of mirrors. Good video man!

This isnt about someone I'm in relationship with, but rather a coworker. Though I doubt there's a video out there like this tailored to that. Yet, I can't help but think that even to a small extent that this would work with them. Also, I couldn't say for sure that this coworker has abandonment issues other than she pretends to like the things people around her like. Which may be a sign of something else. That, and recently she came in like she was going to be working her shift then left only after I wasnt around to see her leave. Then none of my coworkers said she'd left, and in fact my manager sent a text like she was working but busy. I didnt find out I she went home until I texted her about something that required her attention and she replied by apologizing & saying that she wouldn't be assisting because something came up. The fact she and others acted like she was going to work her shift with not telling me she instead went home annoyed me more than the fact she didnt work her shift because something urgent came up that she went home for. I'm sure there's a way to communicate this without being too harsh or judgmental.

I've struggled with this for years. He would even call his mom before we would have sex.than after he would also call. It was so disgusting

Which man on here feels okay imagining his gf climaxing on a grass fed buck pressing her face into the pillow? Trying to posit this ubiquitous male response within individual men problematising/pathologising it as a ‘flaw’ is a gaslight