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little life update- EP 4// Chit Chat & Change
I've been MIA- sorry guys! This week I spoke about my life recently, some clarification on a few topics of concern, and I read some of your questions from my IG story.
I'll be posting again next week. Thank you guys for watching!
IG: samkelly32?hl=en
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In this weeks episode, I have my dad on my "podcast" to talk about generational trauma. I think it would be interesting to hear about his upbringing so we can then understand the origins of my upbringing. We talk about trauma, addiction, growing up with an alcoholic, and so on. I also want to remind you guys that I actually hated my dad until I was about 18 years old. We really had no relations...
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Thank you guys so much- I love you all In this video, I talked about everyone's amazing responses to my first video, what helped me be able to leave someone despite loving them, and a little bit more about therapy & self-love. IG; samkelly32 Tik Tok: samkelly322
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I'm sorry if I was screaming into the mic. idk how to do this. this week, I talked about why Vincent and I broke up, our living situation, and a little insight into my personal life. Thank you guys for your patience. Love you all! IG: @Samkelly32 Tik Tok: samkelly322

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  • @AboveRL
    @AboveRL 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    he had me until he said big foot

  • @giselajreige3392
    @giselajreige3392 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    please do more talking videos . i feel in a sense of home hearing you speak about relatable things . thank you.

  • @sarahlintott777
    @sarahlintott777 วันที่ผ่านมา

    can we get a sasquatch episode

  • @sarahlintott777
    @sarahlintott777 วันที่ผ่านมา

    it’s so beautiful how he is able to apologize for his mistakes and behavior

  • @Leilani300
    @Leilani300 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You inspire me so much to put myself first and change my environment. You are so open about these topics and I couldn’t be great-full to have a motivational peer. Thank you.

  • @Leilani300
    @Leilani300 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you Sam 💕

  • @corporategirlprobs
    @corporategirlprobs 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    keep coming back here hoping to see a new video!! literally my new favorite youtuber ..what you share is so so helpful, valuable, and relatable

  • @ryandennyyy
    @ryandennyyy 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I literally loveeee you!!! Your videos are my favorite, and I love how authentically yourself you are!! Keep being you, and don’t let anyone dim your light! Jesus has a beautiful plan for you, I hope you continue to heal and break the generational curses queeen!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @szandragyorgy2427
    @szandragyorgy2427 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are amazing and so inspiring! ❤

  • @szandragyorgy2427
    @szandragyorgy2427 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ....also you are really young! You need to experience life before having a family!

  • @szandragyorgy2427
    @szandragyorgy2427 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your video! It's nice way of thinkig although I did love your relationship with Vincent but also get that you have to grow, especially before having kids!! You're definitely on the right path! I wish you happiness!

  • @heatheralmanza7257
    @heatheralmanza7257 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was in therapy for 3 years and completed it, My mom used to say “go talk to your stranger” and made me feel worse and so so looked down on for being in therap, thank you ❤

  • @lindzeyc2161
    @lindzeyc2161 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you should make a video about what you eat for holistic healing

  • @madelinehixon
    @madelinehixon 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was truly amazing to see from a dad of his generation. Please do more talks like this with him. This has been so informative!

  • @madelinehixon
    @madelinehixon 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What i would give to have my dad do this kind of work on himself and take accountability for so much trauma in my childhood. He still yells constantly and it still gives me so much PTSD when I get yelled at from him or anyone else to this day & I’m 30 years old. I love my therapist so much but I am definitely still dealing with current trauma that’s ongoing in my family so we don’t deep dive to heal the uncomfortable stuff as much. But I hope the fact that I love her doesn’t mean she’s a bad therapist

  • @ladiamia
    @ladiamia 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Regarding the time outs… Sam wasn’t refusing an apology out of stubbornness…she was refusing it because she was silenced.

  • @KatherineDavies-o7n
    @KatherineDavies-o7n 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    as someone who has been in a relationship where the other person’s actions was affecting me and negatively, this video is really helpful. I also came from a extremely dysfunctional family, and I am now engaged to a man who came from a very healthy family and it has benefited me and helped me in ways that I didn’t even know that I needed help in, you will find the father for your children do not worry!

  • @ellorapries
    @ellorapries 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So mature. I am in a VERY similar situation almost identical (so it feels) to her story. This video is the guiding light i needed to see. I’ve only ever stayed because I love him so much, but idk if my children will. And I will NOT let my future children go through what I had to. But how do you just step away? It’s so hard at 21 years old you have ALL of the opportunity and options but I find it so hard to step away from such a toxic cycle. I will say that you have impacted atleast 1 persons future decisions. In a way it’s nice to know I’m not the only person to have ever gone through this type of cycle

  • @tinaking8586
    @tinaking8586 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you keep crying when you talk about yoir future children because you are also channeling your own inner child amd the wish that your parents had done the same.

  • @jxx9x
    @jxx9x 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    10:45 Let him cook

  • @cristinariv6
    @cristinariv6 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for these videos. I am going through the exact same thing right now. I really needed to hear this

  • @saras9270
    @saras9270 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    love this conversation and so refreshing that he’s open to having it with you!!!! proud of both of you ❤

  • @middlesaint
    @middlesaint 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this healed a part of me that i didn’t even know needed healing. sam you are really lucky to have a dad that is willing to put in the work to be a better man and father. most fathers wouldn’t do this. i also learned so much from this video. i had a lot of the same experiences as you sam, and the perspective your dad brought about the situations opened my eyes. for example, my parents would also get extremely angry if i got hurt as a child and i never understood why until now when your dad said its because they are making your injury about themselves. please do another episode with your dad! loved this one.

  • @leilanicruz4815
    @leilanicruz4815 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You definitely helped one girl watching thank you ❤

  • @megatron4338
    @megatron4338 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I randomly came across this video on my feed and girl you are so lucky to have a dad who cares the way he does about you.

  • @slimjadeyyy
    @slimjadeyyy 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    shoutout sussex county!

  • @slimjadeyyy
    @slimjadeyyy 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I relate to your dads story. I love that he drives home the importance of getting sober and getting therapy! <3

  • @keeliedesa797
    @keeliedesa797 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    girl it’s crazy how connected our family situations are alike. I feel you when you say we have free will and can literally just do whatever. I wanna see the ocean, live in an apartment, then finally get to be a mother. I live in British Columbia like 2.5 hours from Seattle Washington & it is BEAUTIFUL so much nature.

  • @kanyisolao6983
    @kanyisolao6983 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl I have one comment to make - saying you have nothing to be sorry for is a narcissistic trait so maybe you should dissect that with your therapist 👍🏽

  • @InfaredAffliction
    @InfaredAffliction 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m 20 y/o male . Are generation is cooked and weak . She just called her dad abusive for putting her in time out for 5 hours…… no abuse was him getting beat

    • @jxx9x
      @jxx9x 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only like 5 min in and she’s crying about not having paper towels … dawg..

  • @victorsampietro9018
    @victorsampietro9018 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sam.. your stare at camera..wow

  • @francescashupe9700
    @francescashupe9700 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your channel is genuinely my favorite!! <33

  • @KaylaBrooks4
    @KaylaBrooks4 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is crazy bc i also went through an epigenetics-obsession😂 I’m in grad school to become a registered dietitian, but in my undergrad I wrote a whole research paper on systemic racism & related food insecurity’s impacts on epigenetics

  • @sydneenewsham5191
    @sydneenewsham5191 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I totally get the feeling of not wanting to be perceived and not knowing if “influencing” is what your supposed to be doing. But just know that your videos have been super inspiring thus far and I love hearing what you have to say. I’m in a similar point in my life and everything you say is super relatable and brings me a sense of reassurance and hope :)) love you Sam!!

  • @Lehyamickle
    @Lehyamickle 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i relate to you so much so glad i saw this!

  • @lealasmith1743
    @lealasmith1743 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sam this is just what I need, watching all of your videos right now. It feels nice to feel less alone and gain insight/ a better perspective of things because I too am going through a breakup. You're amazing, Thank you❤

  • @KylieMarieBurge
    @KylieMarieBurge 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m loving this content from you!! Please post more!! You’re going to get huge, you’re so genuine and so nice to listen to.

  • @lllnalllna
    @lllnalllna 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    25:01 thats a great thing

  • @jesseberlinjames
    @jesseberlinjames 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Halfway through this video, I’m shocked by Sam’s attitude toward her father. She neither treats him fairly nor shows the respect a daughter owes a good parent. She also seems convinced she knows more than she actually does. Criticizing her father’s emphasis on proper behavior and correct pronunciation is unjustified-in fact, such guidance helps shape strong character and discipline. Teaching children to consider how others perceive their actions is not about restricting their freedom, but about guiding them toward becoming considerate, respectful individuals. A suggestion for her father: avoid reinforcing the notion that your daughters have understood everything or that their perceptions are always correct. Also some psychologists are simply wrong-do not follow every suggestion or recommendation without critical thought. I just get the feeling of an unhealthy entitlement and ungratefulness.

    • @mellll45
      @mellll45 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yea I completly understand what sam had gone through with her relationtionship to her dad but it feels like this is almost public humiliation. He keeps apologizing for every little thing he's ever done on the internet and is being outed it almost feels unfair but idk

  • @pastelcardigan
    @pastelcardigan 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you

  • @swaggyg6017
    @swaggyg6017 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this is why you choose your wife wisely

  • @alanagonzales
    @alanagonzales 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you’re amazing and inspiring please keep putting these episodes out!! 🫶🏼

  • @BRIDGETUHMYEAH
    @BRIDGETUHMYEAH 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ahh, the parentified child of an alcoholic/addict to holistic healing, therapy going, manifestation and energy healing girly pipeline 😂 I believe my childhood experience is exactly what led me to becoming a Reiki Practitioner, majoring in psychology in college, and now becoming a holistic health coach. I found my passion because of wanting to understand and heal my own pain. A lot of fellow energy workers I meet or just friends I have that are super into eating clean and becoming the healthiest versions of themselves also happened to have some of the most traumatic experiences. It’s really beautiful when you think about it

  • @Dyst0piaa7
    @Dyst0piaa7 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is so cool😊

  • @Sammi-m4w
    @Sammi-m4w 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like this

  • @FURnDIAMONDS
    @FURnDIAMONDS 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your father being so vulnerable with you and us shows an incredible amount of humility. I hope you both the best on your healing journey ❤

  • @lordjesux
    @lordjesux 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ignore the haters and just keep going

  • @WhoreforMacMiller
    @WhoreforMacMiller 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    u have a new bf already?

  • @sarypo
    @sarypo 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I relate to you sososo much

  • @SissyRogers-sp6zj
    @SissyRogers-sp6zj 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I literally love you Samantha.