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What exactly are we surrendering? Interview with Michael Singer
New York Times Best Selling Author, Michael Singer shares his views on the following topics:
- What surrender actually means?
- Do we absolutely need boundaries in our lives?
- Why do we feel uncomfortable when events in life happen to us?
- How do we handle emotions?
- How does 'surrender' relate to eastern philosophies including Zen Buddaism, Tao from Lao Tzu
Interviewer:
Effie Cao - Life Coach | Co-founder of Aiyu Planet - an online community for those who seek an internal path of personal development
Learn more about Effie as a life coach: www.effiecaocoaching.com
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  • @prettyzen
    @prettyzen หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, Effie & Mickey ✨

  • @hannahkim888
    @hannahkim888 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    An incredibly insightful interview. You asked probing questions and allowed space for Michael Singer to answer fully. It was the best interview I’ve seen of M. Singer. Well done!

  • @megaPnanda
    @megaPnanda 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beautiful interview, thank you for sharing ❤

  • @InTYcing1
    @InTYcing1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The dialogue in your head is your “NOTs”…..which comes from your “IS”. Never make a “IS”…..and your mind will be set free.

  • @fromtabithawithlove
    @fromtabithawithlove 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Physicial vs mental abuse. What’s the difference? Why does a broken spirit mean less than a black eye?

  • @meruhakoe
    @meruhakoe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. You're asking all the good questions. Love this interview! Thank you so much.

  • @sharonfisher3179
    @sharonfisher3179 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You asked him the question that I have always wanted to ask him about boundaries. It was the perfect question!

    • @MS-bs8dd
      @MS-bs8dd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He said we don’t require them in a way, when we’re not all about maintaining control, creating outcomes the way want. I may not have understood this as I still feel like I like to have boundaries.

  • @Kanakavalli-abhangs-bhajans
    @Kanakavalli-abhangs-bhajans 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so beautiful. If the tempo of the talk is a bit slow it will be really helpful.

  • @joyluo6394
    @joyluo6394 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎎🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Gaurav.P0
    @Gaurav.P0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best interview ❤

  • @richardsrensen4219
    @richardsrensen4219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great Interview you got him to explain his teaching in new ways thanks to your great Questions

  • @OneSliceNation
    @OneSliceNation ปีที่แล้ว

    Mikey "somewheres" Singer

  • @nayaleezy
    @nayaleezy ปีที่แล้ว

    great interview, and your audio is out of phase

  • @Dumballa
    @Dumballa ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this. Michael is one of the most important people who helped me know thyself 😊

  • @Ben22377
    @Ben22377 ปีที่แล้ว

    Precious ❤

  • @nesh963
    @nesh963 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the question that you asked at 30:36. Most people in my own circle have misunderstood it as saying “yes” to everything lol Thanks for clarifying that.❤

  • @Shyneece21
    @Shyneece21 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you the discussion on boundaries was definitely what I needed to here ❤️ perfect I see now that true it’s hitting your stuff this is amazing

  • @DaysofSummer_love
    @DaysofSummer_love ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing! I am here because of Michael Singer. He is one of the most profound teachers. I have read the surrender experiment 2x and read the other books. I wish i could also go to Temple of the Universe and listen to Mickey live. Thank you for this interview. 🙏🙏🙏 Im from the Philippines.

  • @BrockLanders
    @BrockLanders ปีที่แล้ว

    36:30

  • @rachelle186
    @rachelle186 ปีที่แล้ว

    40:18 this part 🙏🏼🤍

  • @clarissa1663
    @clarissa1663 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice interview. Thank you!

  • @anthonydeloach805
    @anthonydeloach805 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Iike the way Effie conducts this interview.

  • @AlexanderNilsson1
    @AlexanderNilsson1 ปีที่แล้ว

    So curious on how you got this interview? 😮😊

  • @stevepalmer-drums
    @stevepalmer-drums ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Effie Cao for this interview which is a favourite interview with Michael Singer. I very much appreciated your questions and Micky's explanations. Seeing Micky respond to the questions, rather than only listening to an audio, seems to add a layer of strength to his message. Wishing you all the best for your own work. 🙏

  • @adadalee
    @adadalee ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much for making and sharing this beautiful interview, Effie. It was very thought provoking. I watched this video two times and marked down many important notes as reminders for myself. Your interaction with Mickey was inspirational as well! I like it how you cut in your understanding of his words naturally and then threw out another question for him to go further and deeper. Precious and neat. Thanks again!

  • @anobody4464
    @anobody4464 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:17 That "Illegible" is, "Krishnamurti called it". Another great mystic Mickey quotes often. From the 20th century.

  • @gummisnoodable
    @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

    56:15 He opens his place up for free. Michael Singer is not the least about making money. Love and cherish his soul.

  • @1rocknroy
    @1rocknroy ปีที่แล้ว

    But can he walk on water?

  • @BuBu-uz9qi
    @BuBu-uz9qi ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, everyone I have a secret for you reveal. The reason why the United States of America and the Vatican keep delayed time by playing the voting game between President Biden with President Trump even though they know their children is going to die for no reason because if the Tibet and India know Pope Francisco does not want to see Holy Dalai Lama but he sent a Vietnamese came to Tibet say Vatican and NATO will liberate the Tibet and India. In contrary; every time NATO visit any country, Pope Francisco will visit that country. They do know the Vatican had done with Tibet 's citizens, thus they don't even say sorry. Secondly; I hope the India' citizens please pay attention. Don't you think this is disrespectful. Please tell me your comments Sincerely Thanks

  • @radhikaschwartz3499
    @radhikaschwartz3499 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right

  • @woofmeow247
    @woofmeow247 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The voice inside the head...the inner dialogue...everybody has it unquestionably.". No, he is wrong. I do not have an inner voice or dialogue. I consciously get images, replaying scenes, music all the time, but no vocal dialogue.

  • @gracefully8
    @gracefully8 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT IS INTUITION FOR MICHAEL SINGER?????

  • @barbrathompson9798
    @barbrathompson9798 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Effie, You have a beautiful energy Loved your interview, And Michael is a peach,,, want to go to his retreat centre

  • @alexawesome6072
    @alexawesome6072 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u

  • @dileeppunalur7142
    @dileeppunalur7142 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview. Hoping to see more such videos from you.

  • @Onthesummit
    @Onthesummit ปีที่แล้ว

    The greatest teacher. ❤

  • @ellenlevin546
    @ellenlevin546 ปีที่แล้ว

    MAGNIFICENT❤

  • @RaptorGirlkathy
    @RaptorGirlkathy ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not quite at "beautiful, or OK" with Everything that unfolds, Mickey..but getting there, paying less and less attention to my mind...I refer to your "water" image of letting "stuff come in & dissipating on water, don't touch it!!! or leaning back into my seat, creating space, to let it go!! (breathe ..Thank you to Michael & Effie :)

  • @charlenehung
    @charlenehung ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this beautiful moment ❤️

  • @gummisnoodable
    @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

    Michael Singer's teachings are so genuine and extremely helpful!

    • @gummisnoodable
      @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

      5:43 timestamps for myself or anyone interested. I have always mentally skipped over this example he gives in some of his talks feeling like I got this part already. Today it gave me a new thought though that yes if you are mentally saying hello inside your head, your body is not hearing anything, it's your seat of consciousness that is "hearing" or experiencing the "hello." Although I already understood this, it drove the point home further.

    • @gummisnoodable
      @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

      33:12 I need to go back, but this moment woke me from inactive listening. It's not about thinking (it's about going to your seat of consciousness and letting the answer come to you)

    • @gummisnoodable
      @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

      8:31 Should one listen to the yes voice or the no voice? NEITHER. From the seat of consciousness your innate wisdom will kick in. Before you get to that stage of progress, perhaps saying yes has a better percentage of being a good thing for you, but like his drug dealer example later 31:05 , you can't rely on yes and instead can go to the seat of consciousness and your innate wisdom.

    • @gummisnoodable
      @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

      11:23 what are we surrendering? Surrendering our reaction inside, our emotional trigger points.

    • @gummisnoodable
      @gummisnoodable ปีที่แล้ว

      12:14 what you're experiencing it's not the truth, unless you are fully clear, fully in the seat of your consciousness.

  • @jenmdawg
    @jenmdawg ปีที่แล้ว

    Singer is a true gift. I search for new videos of him every few weeks and am glad he’s getting more and more of an audience. I had too hard a time with the audio quality to listen to this one but I can tell you’re a gem of an interviewer.

  • @chananzlotnitsky9179
    @chananzlotnitsky9179 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved the interview. And listening to Michael Singer’s teaching is an ongoing profound self-growth journey.

  • @ccartist516
    @ccartist516 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best MS interviews... Easy, clear, deep questions, easy clear answers... Love it. Gracias 🙏🏾

  • @DicksonPau96
    @DicksonPau96 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow envy your opportunity!

  • @skylardharma
    @skylardharma ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview ~ come see the Wake Up Biohacking spiritual home in north San Diego The moment in front of you is not bothering you - you are bothering yourself about the moment in front of you Steven E Schmitt

  • @maxinbo
    @maxinbo ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview. Thank you for sharing. This is the most important work for me to be doing.

  • @ccartist516
    @ccartist516 ปีที่แล้ว

    19:00

  • @ccartist516
    @ccartist516 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:30

  • @ferdiadonohoe
    @ferdiadonohoe ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview, Michael's teachings are life-changing

  • @ngoctien1515
    @ngoctien1515 ปีที่แล้ว

    "You don't let go the preferences. You let go the reason you have preferences."

    • @BuBu-uz9qi
      @BuBu-uz9qi ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, everyone I have a secret for you reveal. The reason why the United States of America and the Vatican keep delayed time by playing the voting game between President Biden with President Trump even though they know their children is going to die for no reason because if the Tibet and India know Pope Francisco does not want to see Holy Dalai Lama but he sent a Vietnamese came to Tibet say Vatican and NATO will liberate the Tibet and India. In contrary; every time NATO visit any country, Pope Francisco will visit that country. They do know the Vatican had done with Tibet 's citizens, thus they don't even say sorry. Secondly; I hope the India' citizens please pay attention. Don't you think this is disrespectful. Please tell me your comments Sincerely Thanks