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The Confident Charismatic
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 22 มี.ค. 2022
Jay Hurt is a relationship coach, author and passionate about helping men develop their charisma, confidence and leadership. If you want to be more attractive and have chemistry with women, create success in your career, and have more leadership and financial opportunities, this is the channel for you. We will explore how to be more confident, how to create connection, how to create vision (as a charismatic leader), and teach men what they need to know to have relationship with the women they desire.
Confidence and Charisma create power, influence and develop the life you want. Follow us for more. Let's go!!!
Confidence and Charisma create power, influence and develop the life you want. Follow us for more. Let's go!!!
5 Steps to Instantly Boost Your Attraction Factor
Unlock the secret to becoming irresistibly attractive with these 5 steps that every man needs to understand. Whether you're diving into the dating world or looking to elevate your existing relationships, this video is your ultimate guide to boosting your attraction factor instantly. Discover how simple changes in your wardrobe, grooming habits, and fitness can transform your dating life and make you the man she can't resist.
From selecting the right clothes that enhance your natural appeal to maintaining a groomed appearance that speaks volumes about your attention to detail, these tips are practical yet powerful. Remember, it's not just about looks; confidence, humor, and a clear sense of purpose are key traits that make you stand out. If you remember anything else from this video, let it be this: Attraction is not just physical; it's about creating an aura that draws people in.
Don't stop here! Connect with us on social media, check out our podcast for more insights, explore our apparel store for styles that make a statement, and email us for any business opportunities or collaborations. Your journey to becoming the best version of yourself continues, and we're here to help every step of the way.
#ConfidenceBuilding #MensFashion #BuildingAttraction #MentalSharpness #RelationshipBuilding
CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Introduction
1:10 - Fashion Advice Tips
3:03 - Importance of Humor
4:26 - Fitness Goals
5:45 - Finding Your Purpose
6:46 - Understanding Attraction
From selecting the right clothes that enhance your natural appeal to maintaining a groomed appearance that speaks volumes about your attention to detail, these tips are practical yet powerful. Remember, it's not just about looks; confidence, humor, and a clear sense of purpose are key traits that make you stand out. If you remember anything else from this video, let it be this: Attraction is not just physical; it's about creating an aura that draws people in.
Don't stop here! Connect with us on social media, check out our podcast for more insights, explore our apparel store for styles that make a statement, and email us for any business opportunities or collaborations. Your journey to becoming the best version of yourself continues, and we're here to help every step of the way.
#ConfidenceBuilding #MensFashion #BuildingAttraction #MentalSharpness #RelationshipBuilding
CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Introduction
1:10 - Fashion Advice Tips
3:03 - Importance of Humor
4:26 - Fitness Goals
5:45 - Finding Your Purpose
6:46 - Understanding Attraction
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Great work put in the video man. Keep it up!
Thanks for the support!
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its flawless i like it dude
Appreciate the support!
If you have to wonder she is not that into you
Some of us have to refine those skills, so we don't have to wonder. Thanks for the comment!
What about "respect is won"?
Respect is most often earned. I would add her respect is won when a man shows himself to be the man she expects him to be. Kind, faithful, trustworthy, considerate, selfless and loving are a few of the traits that help to win her respect.
That is contentious. Some women are stock borers, they work very hard to destroy a mans obvious respectability of the shere love of it.
I'm not sure which part you see as contentious. You can earn a woman's respect in many ways. I appreciate your comments!
Bro, you spoke the honey due list until point #4 🤣. Good Content/Subscribe 👏🏿
I appreciate it! Thanks!
I know a lot of people hate you because you are better than them continue bro
Ha! I hope they don't...but I appreciate the positivity! Thanks for the comments!
You are welcome
Because they are children. Simple.
Because of culure..😊
Culture definitely plays a part in how she decides to respond (or not). Thanks!
why do you think women will stop respecting their male partners if they have more power? do you think many men disrespect women because they have more power? a lot of times it's hard to say what is actually right or wrong. what's right to someone might be wrong to another, and vice versa. so when someone doesn't apologize, it could be that they're actually right, and the other is close-minded.
This is a great question. Women stop respecting men if she succeeds in asserting dominance, because it's more of a challenge she wants to portray than a reality she's trying to attain. Rarely, if ever, do you find women that want a dominant role in a relationship. What she wants is to know that a man is capable of being the leader she wants him to be. In my experience, I haven't encountered even one successful relationship where the woman is the dominant partner, but to your point, there's probably some out there. They are the exception, not the rule. Thanks for the comments!
Women do not know the meaning of responsibility and accountability. Trust me men, women are sneaky and devious.
I don't think women are sneaky and devious. Women see life differently than men do. As I mentioned, women actually apologize in general more than we do. If we listen to them and find out what they think is apology worthy, we'll understand their perspectives better. I appreciate you chiming in!
This guy is a G
Too Good ! Sir what's some top books/tips on how to regain self belief back after some setbacks or hard times to keep going in testing times ? How to get ultra inspired & stay inspired even in uncertain times..
I think many of the books that target men around self confidence and self-esteem leave a bit to be desired. A great book to start with is Brene Brown's book, The Gifts of Imperfection. It helps with regain that true believe in self. I appreciate the support!
@@jayhurtcoaching Thanks a Million 💚
I’m pretty sure you just made an enemy out of that woman…. 😬
Nah...quite the opposite. It's not what you say and do, it's how you deliver it. That's what makes banter not just a skill, but an art. Appreciate the comments.
A rather vague concept of what a 'woman out of your league'. Let's just say all 'modern, western women' are so restrictive in who they deem as 'within their league', it leaves less than 3% of men in the world fitting into that concept. Remove all those who know they have their pick and don't intend to settle, as well as those who simply aren't seeing those 'modern women' as worthy of any of their time/energy/assets, that leaves at best 1%. Those who wanted to settle likely already did, so that gets even lower. It's not a matter of 'women being out of his league', it's what women consider which men are worthy of their attention to begin with. Men would have better odds playing the lottery than finding that life partner in western society. 'Women out of their league' is not even a passing thought these days.
We differ on the point of "What women consider which men are worthy of their attention to begin with." Men choose women, not the other way around. Speak to some women and you'll be surprised how many women would be happen to be "chosen." If we engage with more women that match our values, we'll find more women that desire our attention. I appreciate the thoughtful comments!
So your describing a boss babe? Their are not that attractive, let along feminine.
Not really. I'm describing how to deal with the fear and intimidation that resonates in our head. If we can control the voice in our head that's making our interaction with women more challenging, we can date any girl we want. You're in control of your outcome, not the negative stuff in your head. Appreciate the comments!
@@jayhurtcoaching men are not intimidated by women
@@user-kb8kg1dp7l Not always, but sometimes this is definitely the case. Some men are intimidated by successful women, some by confident women, attractive women, a woman taller than a man, these are a few...there are a plethora of reasons.
@@jayhurtcoaching No, it is their attitude that repulses men, their masculine behaviour. No man is afraid of a woman. You are not a man, you have feminine thinking. Were you raised in a single mother home? probably.
Too Good !! Any book recommendations on this topic..
The Power of Self-Confidence by Brian Tracy is a good read. I'll be offering a book and other content on this topic in the near future. Click here to get one of my free dating strategies and I'll also let you know when my book is released: relationship-strategies-intl.ck.page/4b99739033
Am always inspired
I appreciate your support!
There's woman that i'm so inlove with, at first i refused to mention or even say this to her we were good we played together and spent time but when my friends started making her understand i was inlove with her and forced me into confessing my feelings to her. Things got bad she stoped inviting me to her space, stop picking my calls often stoped texing often but would play cool and good whenever she sees me anywhere i can feel her trying to push me away but i love her so much that i'm seeing myself do things that's making me feel so like i'm forcing it. Pls i need your advice do you think i should just forget her and walk away or what?
I appreciate you sharing. I wouldn't advise you to "forget her" so to speak. Like you said, you feel like you're forcing it. So don't force it...as a matter of fact, do the exact opposite of forcing it. You know how you feel about her and now, she does as well. You don't need to say it again, or even act on it. Live your life! Go and enjoy the things you like to do. The more you spend time being the best version of yourself, she will see you doing your thing (even though it's not with her most of the time) and she'll be intrigued and appreciate it. There's a chance she won't be into you, even after this...but you have to be ok with the outcome. Focus on enjoying and living your life, and that will stop you from forcing anything on her. I believe you'll be very happy with the outcome. Good luck!
Good one
Thanks!
Wow I'm impressed-this is actually good advice. TH-cam dating advice is usually trash.
Appreciate the comment.
Some people only know how to meet people on socials. Sometimes, it may be easier than meeting people naturally in real life.
I think that is the core of the problem. We must learn how to interact in-person. Swiping left and right is fine, but then how do you interact once you actually meet? It's important for men to learn how to meet and interact with others in real life, not only for dating purposes, but in every facet of life. Appreciate the comment!
No shit Sherlock
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Nice job man. This is a great message.
Thanks man! Appreciate the support!
5:43 because he sparks emotional responses from her from day one until whenever, so she gets attached. she wasn't interested in any vision etc, the emotional attached he was able to get from her is all that mattered to her. that is why after some real traumatic experience and they "wake up" they go, he wasn't even my type, how did i get with him, how did i miss that. EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT, they are void of logic.
Interesting take. I actually have a video coming discussing logic vs psychology - where we'll touch on how to understand psychology informs us about women more than what we would consider basic logic. You're saying a woman is void of logic, but please consider logic is not the measuring stick we should use for women. We would use that for us, because we're different beings. I can tell you that in my experience when a woman "wakes up" from that early form of emotional connection when we are both in our representative phase of dating, my experience has been those things I mentioned in the video, in addition to confidence, etc, have made our relationships even stronger. There's more depth to women than we sometimes give them credit for. Thoughtful response, thanks.
All of these are good to have AS A MAN. However, they ALL mean NOTHING to a woman IF SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU. Women banging men who don't know how they getting food on the table that day, is that vision? Women do NOT have any list of requirements. Whatever they say is the total opposite of who/what they are/do. She gives a list of things that she see other people say, but she reacts to how SHE FEELS IN THE MOMENT. So what they leave out is, ALL YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO DO IS SPARK AN EMOTIONAL REACTION FROM/IN THEM.
I talk about attraction, compatibility and chemistry in other videos. I agree that they are foundational to successful relationships. These points are the next step--conversations points that are intriguing and get you to the 2nd date. Women are interested in what your goals, dreams and aspirations really look like? To your point, you feel what women say things that are opposite of who they are, these are the things that fill in those blanks. Women generally like men who are ambitious. To be ambitious, you must have vision. Passion is an attractive trait in a man, so back to your point of women being attracted to a man...she's often attracted to more than just your physicality, she's attracted to things such as passion. I appreciate your comments!
The pretty boy and the badman gets to third base by the first day. These requirements you state are only for us average or unattractive men with money. Don't fall for it 🤦🤷
Respectfully, this perspective is literally a lack of confidence. First of all, why is my goal getting to third base? My goal is getting to know her. The requirements I mention serve every man well. Have you ever noticed that there are beautiful women out there that date men that wouldn't "measure up" to her standard physically? -- and they aren't wealthy or badboys. Do you know why? They are confident in who they are. Average is a state of mind. It doesn't exist - only in our psyche. Rich guys, "badboys," pretty boys, etc...they don't get women because they are those things...they get women because they're confident.
Bro who squished your face like that man, you got all that forehead space up there that's just being unutilized lol
Yeah it’s funny all my friends ask how I can talk to girls over text so we’ll and I always say it’s because I text them exactly how I would talk to them in real life
Exactly. Great response!
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Of course, this is a simplified explanation. I made a longer explanation of why women ignore you here: th-cam.com/video/jPhp99jVGn0/w-d-xo.html
So that’s why she was running from me that makes sense😮
The direct approach is usually the best!
Great advice! Thanks!
Thanks for the support!
Thank you! When you truly lead is when you get everyone on board with your vision and respect their input. As you say, building trust is key. If she doesn’t feel she can trust you why would she want to follow your lead?
Thanks for sharing!
so your talking about women 🤔 😂😂😂
I’d drop him if he said that lol
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Don’t listen to this knucklehead, what brother that has it together would say, are you paying, come on dude!!!
I agree I knew it find a woman that love u for u looks fade
Thank you. I am authentically superman. Very powerful message. Blessings to you.
Confidence is sexy, sexier if the joke is funny.
very false
Listen man I've come to learn in the years at the lyric the Lord has given me that will you approach women you really don't have a chance what you need to do really is work on yourself don't get distracted by women and they come to you when they talk to you they are giving themselves to you there's nothing more lovable in more exciting than when a woman gives into you so dude work on yourself okay just work on yourself and everything will come
I follow what you are saying. I agree fully that if we work on ourselves and we are poised and confident, women will come up to us, I have experienced it many times. That said, there are times when a guy wants to approach a specific woman in a group and these tips can help his confidence a bit. Thanks for sharing. Excellent points!