Today, November 19th, 2024, my father passed away suddenly after a viral infection led to cardiac complications. Emergency doctors got to this apartment, reanimated him for over 25 minutes but couldn't save him. Just yesterday, we had a conversation on the phone, and he wished me a good trip for today. He seemed perfectly fine, I thanked him and told him we'd see each other again on Thursday, not knowing, what would happen today. The only thing I can say to those who are reading this and haven't experienced a loss yet, please cherish the time you have with your loved ones. When it's too late, it's too late and nothing will bring that person back. To anyone who has lost someone and is reading this, please know that you're not alone.
I lost my Mom Feb 16th, 2023. I won’t lie and pretend for y’all that the pain goes away. There are days now where I’m at work, and still just getting by, but other days I’m lost in thought. Take it in baby steps. Don’t feel bad for missing your parents. I’m glad I still have my dad, and struggle to think about what my life will be like when a majority of my family is gone. Then some days life breathes into you new meaning. You’ll feel lost, maybe even exhausted at times. Just don’t let anyone judge how you grieve or how long the process takes. Take it day by day and I wish you eventual peace. I’m still trying to find that too.
Not worth it.. i have no more energy or hope. I thought i was doing what god wanted. But realized wr have a corrupt government and they do corrupt ahit and people are generally evil and find those who atent and break them. Its a curse to be a co dependent and god letting you live is the worst thing that could happen before your found and used
Lost my dad in February of 2024 it’s now November 2024 the pain is still there like it just happened . A melancholy follows me in everything thing I do no matter how joyful. I know it’s something I have to accept and learn to live with or it will destroy me. My thoughts are with everyone that has lost someone ❤
I suddenly lost my father today. While I can never fill his shoes. I need to be there for my baby brother. Unfortunately, people are already descending like vultures. After 24 years of always being together my first time away from him for 10 months after joining the military, this happens.
my girlfriend committed suicide november 1st, 2024. i’m so lost and empty. i’m pushing on but there’s no joy, no happiness. it’s the worst pain i’ve ever felt. any advice is greatly appreciated, i can’t get through this alone.
I lost my most prized possession in this world my oldest child & only son Michael at age 18 to a unlicensed dui driver in 2020. I couldn't even bury him properly. He'll never read this, but I checked out of life I was done with it all convinced myself everyone would be better off w/o me being miserable & a emotional wreck the rest of my life. Came across many of his videos & I kept watching. Slowly, I started to heal I believe everyone that lost a child has a point where they decide if they'll get back up or die. I wanted to die, emphatically. What changed me was a video JP said to a man who lost a child did you love him :Yes would you do anything for him: yes would you trade places or die for him: in a heartbeat he said. So JP asks him then why can't you LIVE for him? I was shaken as I asked myself the same. I wasn't sure at first, but I am trying to honor him with how I live that's what he would of wanted. I miss you Mike, one day soon son we'll meet again.
my grandmum just left to the other world today......I finish watching this video with tears all on my face.......thanks for the video, I will be quite strong today, tomorrow and the future
I lost my beloved and self-sacrificing mother last year, it was a great loss to our family, the void is great. She really took a part of our hearts with her in passing away. Life must go on, but is also so heavy and meaningless without our loved ones. Thank you mamma, you were great, no one will ever come close to you in life, rest in peace until we see each other again in heaven. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ And to all of you who are grieving like me, may God comfort you all and give you hope of a great and awaited reunion with your loved ones. In Jesus name I pray , amen 🙏🏾
I lost my mother two weeks ago the funeral was on Wednesday and now it really is starting to feel real I love you mum thanks for every struggle you made it through for us ❤
Raised by single mother and grandparents and from 2020 my life changed forever in 4 years I lost my house and all belongings in a fire after that my grandfather died and now my grandmother which raised me, taught me and loved me so much, it's so hard I can can barely make sense All I have left now is my mom and the house that I rebuild full of things that now don't matter Cherish you're family above all else because you never know when is you're last time with them . I miss you so much grandma and I love you with all my heart 😢❤
I wish I could've been there for my father's last moments. I lost him 9/11/2024. When I showed up he was 30 minutes deep in CPR my family was in a panic and as the man of the house I had to be the stone of the family. I just buried his ashes last week. Stay strong not only for yourself but for your family.
my dad died 2 weeks ago. My dad's aim was to shield his family from worry or woe. He lived without so we could have. The pain isn't subsiding, maybe it never will, but to be half the man my dad was would be an overwhelming success
Just lost my baby bro on 9/19/24. He was 23, I’m 31. Throughout his entire life, he was battling sickness & major developmental delay. This year in February, we found out he had a tumor in his brain. Drs said nothing could be done due to him being so small & frail & not being strong enough to endure chemos, surgeries & a biopsy. They gave him 3-6 months and they were right for once. He passed away in his sleep and it has been a complete devastation. I cannot get over the day I found him in bed to the time he was picked up by the Funeral home. For him to go out suffering as if he didn’t already go through it for 23 years is literally killing me & filling me with Anger. We just had his burial on Saturday, 9/28/24 & It seems as if reality has really started to kick in. I miss my brother so much. I am glad he is not suffering, but now I’m really down. Also, did I mention I set my wedding date 2 weeks prior to him passing away? So now, I am here going through the motions all while still trying to finish planning the small details left for my small wedding. Also, my bro passed away one day before my dads bday. My dad turned 58 the next day. Life really is a trip. Hang in there everyone. 🙏🏽
My mother died in a car accident on the 28th of August. Lately I've been drinking alcohol almost everyday I'm still dealing with the pain of losing her.
I've been the strong one the months following my fathers death, I have held up my mother and brother through their most epic battles and have saved my own struggles for when I'm alone and can really focus on it. We all struggle from caregiver ptsd and watching a man go from I'm don't feel well May 20 to gone from this body June 10th 68 years old a cancer we never knew existed let alone as bad as it was and would have only 3 weeks left together. Our family has been through the worst now and I hope we can build something stronger back up
Whoever is reading this Just know that you are not alone. You may feel alone, but you are strong, and you will get through this. Make sure you take advantage of every opportunity you have to share time with loved ones. This existence isn't about acquiring material possessions although we get lost in that silliness sometimes......and while we get lost in that worthless quest for acquiring material possessions, years go by that you could have been spending time with loved ones....and once those loved ones are gone, your possessions won't be able to hold back the sadness and regret. Make every day counts instead and nurture relationships which will make you feel more whole.
I just got confirmation that my grandma won't make it so she will pass away and it is all so unbelievable that this happened and then I lost someone I loved one month ago from now. This is much mroe painful, especially knowing that my grandma is the sweetest lady ever. I love you grandma and know that I'm always proud of how amazing you have been to me!!!❤
To anyone reading this hold on and keep going. We're never gonna get over it but we'll learn to deal with it better. Lost so much of my family these last 5 years. 2 years ago I lost my brother. 2 months ago I lost the love of my life. I'm still dealing with it but they wouldn't want me to give up. I'll see them again and I can't wait but people need me here. That should be enough. Don't be afraid to reach out. You're never alone!
My wife and high school sweetheart died in my arms Dec 20 2023, I'm broken and lost but if it wasn't for God and our kids I would be an alcoholic and had dove off the deep end....
I'm here because I just lost my father last night. Our last interaction was an argument couple of weeks ago. I didn't visit him in the hospital, thinking it's just some minor undiagnosed pain. Didn't know it that would be his last weekend, just a week before his birthday on Saturday. It's so sad he will no longer hear my apologies. 😢 I whole heartedly believe I need a therapy, I'm losing it.
My mother passed in 2008 when i was 6 my dad ignored us my mother ignored all the time during her death i was numb i don’t what to feel but now i feel miserable
lost my father this year he was a piece of work this man never let us know what was wrong. jokes til the end cried when he died then shed tears at his memorial service. he was my tokin and drinkin buddy I look back and realized years ago we had the death talk.... it was uncomfortable but a needed talk he didnt want people crying for him so on the day he died all my family was at my mothers house getting burning all different strains and shitfaced drunk. i felt like i was at the must magically delicious place on earth even seen my dad's spirit laughing and smilin then the next day it hit me he was gone that shit sobered ne up to spark up again and restart the ride i was a lite alcoholic for a couple if months smash thru 6 bottles of Henny in a week dont get me started on how many cases of stella and Heineken i went thru shit was crazy
I lost my father 16 August 2024. I am numb and I don't know what to process and how to let it sink in. I'm here in Canada and my mother denied me to visit as she did not want my career to have certain problems. I am not able to convince her to let me be there.
Lost my grandmother on the 14th. My world has shattered. But we must keep going. They wouldn’t want us to be upset like this. It’s time to honor them and be the best person you can be so you see them again some day.
I’m losing my father who me has not been mentally present for a time. It’s hard to push through this after all the evil I have endured over last few years. I have no one to talk to. I am having a hard time finding relief. I hide at home because my temper goes up and down so much. I find that I’m angry and then I haven’t felt satisfied or safe for a long time. I’m lost…
My oldest son, age 37, died December 17, 2023 and as of last Saturday grief hit me like the proverbial Mack truck. I am grateful for Jordan Peterson and his encouragement and other people who can support me....of yet I am to find.
Remember them always. Think about them When you are alone, talk to them out loud too You are a part of them, and they were a part of you Can you go on? Yes And you must For they would want you to flourish and experience your own brief life to the fullest The high The lows I recommend joining a grief class You will not be alone in it Others are going through the same You should talk about these feelings, open them up, and learn to put them away again for another time I can’t hear a Stevie Nicks song or Emmy Lou Harris or Neil Diamond without thinking of her She loved that stuff And when I hear it on the radio or in a shopping center, it’s like she wants me to know she’s alright. I am sorry for your loss But they don’t feel sorry for you at all They loved you And you them So you need to get up and try to enjoy what little life we all have left
My 12 yr old little sister died earlier this year in march. She was the youngest out of 5 siblings and this was my first time EVER experiencing loss. Losing the youngest person in the entire family is unbelievable cause even my grandparents are still alive and well. Not saying I’d wanna lose my grandparents first, but it’s what’s expected vs the youngest. Still tryina make sense out of it till this day.
❤❤❤ Thank you as this video brings so much truth. I lost my son first, then a year and a day later my mother, then my dad 4 yrs ago. I have so much strength but I deal with grief with prayer and laughter. Yes, sadness comes often but I think of happy times when the pain becomes unbearable.
Today, November 19th, 2024, my father passed away suddenly after a viral infection led to cardiac complications. Emergency doctors got to this apartment, reanimated him for over 25 minutes but couldn't save him. Just yesterday, we had a conversation on the phone, and he wished me a good trip for today. He seemed perfectly fine, I thanked him and told him we'd see each other again on Thursday, not knowing, what would happen today. The only thing I can say to those who are reading this and haven't experienced a loss yet, please cherish the time you have with your loved ones. When it's too late, it's too late and nothing will bring that person back. To anyone who has lost someone and is reading this, please know that you're not alone.
Thank you for your advice, I will take it to heart. Please accept my prayers and condolences.
@crispybatman480 thank you
I lost my Mom Feb 16th, 2023. I won’t lie and pretend for y’all that the pain goes away. There are days now where I’m at work, and still just getting by, but other days I’m lost in thought. Take it in baby steps. Don’t feel bad for missing your parents. I’m glad I still have my dad, and struggle to think about what my life will be like when a majority of my family is gone. Then some days life breathes into you new meaning. You’ll feel lost, maybe even exhausted at times. Just don’t let anyone judge how you grieve or how long the process takes. Take it day by day and I wish you eventual peace. I’m still trying to find that too.
Not worth it.. i have no more energy or hope. I thought i was doing what god wanted. But realized wr have a corrupt government and they do corrupt ahit and people are generally evil and find those who atent and break them. Its a curse to be a co dependent and god letting you live is the worst thing that could happen before your found and used
Lost my dad in February of 2024 it’s now November 2024 the pain is still there like it just happened . A melancholy follows me in everything thing I do no matter how joyful. I know it’s something I have to accept and learn to live with or it will destroy me. My thoughts are with everyone that has lost someone ❤
I lost my mom suddenly in 2024. I gave her eulogy yesterday. I do believe I was the strongest at my mom’s funeral.
I suddenly lost my father today. While I can never fill his shoes. I need to be there for my baby brother. Unfortunately, people are already descending like vultures. After 24 years of always being together my first time away from him for 10 months after joining the military, this happens.
my girlfriend committed suicide november 1st, 2024. i’m so lost and empty. i’m pushing on but there’s no joy, no happiness. it’s the worst pain i’ve ever felt. any advice is greatly appreciated, i can’t get through this alone.
Focus on whats there not what’s absent
I lost my most prized possession in this world my oldest child & only son Michael at age 18 to a unlicensed dui driver in 2020. I couldn't even bury him properly. He'll never read this, but I checked out of life I was done with it all convinced myself everyone would be better off w/o me being miserable & a emotional wreck the rest of my life. Came across many of his videos & I kept watching. Slowly, I started to heal I believe everyone that lost a child has a point where they decide if they'll get back up or die. I wanted to die, emphatically. What changed me was a video JP said to a man who lost a child did you love him :Yes would you do anything for him: yes would you trade places or die for him: in a heartbeat he said. So JP asks him then why can't you LIVE for him? I was shaken as I asked myself the same. I wasn't sure at first, but I am trying to honor him with how I live that's what he would of wanted. I miss you Mike, one day soon son we'll meet again.
I'm glad you're still here sir. I can't imagine.
my grandmum just left to the other world today......I finish watching this video with tears all on my face.......thanks for the video, I will be quite strong today, tomorrow and the future
I lost my beloved and self-sacrificing mother last year, it was a great loss to our family, the void is great. She really took a part of our hearts with her in passing away. Life must go on, but is also so heavy and meaningless without our loved ones. Thank you mamma, you were great, no one will ever come close to you in life, rest in peace until we see each other again in heaven. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ And to all of you who are grieving like me, may God comfort you all and give you hope of a great and awaited reunion with your loved ones. In Jesus name I pray , amen 🙏🏾
I lost my father 36 hours ago, I am lost now... This is him just three weeks ago... th-cam.com/video/0JaDmiHkkCA/w-d-xo.html
Is Jordan mentally healthy? 😮
I think he is
Yes, he is a man and not afraid to show it.
I lost my mother two weeks ago the funeral was on Wednesday and now it really is starting to feel real I love you mum thanks for every struggle you made it through for us ❤
Raised by single mother and grandparents and from 2020 my life changed forever in 4 years I lost my house and all belongings in a fire after that my grandfather died and now my grandmother which raised me, taught me and loved me so much, it's so hard I can can barely make sense All I have left now is my mom and the house that I rebuild full of things that now don't matter Cherish you're family above all else because you never know when is you're last time with them . I miss you so much grandma and I love you with all my heart 😢❤
I lost my father last night and I held his hand to his last breath.
I wish I could've been there for my father's last moments. I lost him 9/11/2024. When I showed up he was 30 minutes deep in CPR my family was in a panic and as the man of the house I had to be the stone of the family. I just buried his ashes last week. Stay strong not only for yourself but for your family.
I hope you maintain the strength to be the man your father taught you to be.
my dad died 2 weeks ago. My dad's aim was to shield his family from worry or woe. He lived without so we could have. The pain isn't subsiding, maybe it never will, but to be half the man my dad was would be an overwhelming success
Just lost my baby bro on 9/19/24. He was 23, I’m 31. Throughout his entire life, he was battling sickness & major developmental delay. This year in February, we found out he had a tumor in his brain. Drs said nothing could be done due to him being so small & frail & not being strong enough to endure chemos, surgeries & a biopsy. They gave him 3-6 months and they were right for once. He passed away in his sleep and it has been a complete devastation. I cannot get over the day I found him in bed to the time he was picked up by the Funeral home. For him to go out suffering as if he didn’t already go through it for 23 years is literally killing me & filling me with Anger. We just had his burial on Saturday, 9/28/24 & It seems as if reality has really started to kick in. I miss my brother so much. I am glad he is not suffering, but now I’m really down. Also, did I mention I set my wedding date 2 weeks prior to him passing away? So now, I am here going through the motions all while still trying to finish planning the small details left for my small wedding. Also, my bro passed away one day before my dads bday. My dad turned 58 the next day. Life really is a trip. Hang in there everyone. 🙏🏽
My mother died in a car accident on the 28th of August. Lately I've been drinking alcohol almost everyday I'm still dealing with the pain of losing her.
Trust me. The alcohol won't help. It'll numb the pain but also numb you to everything else. You don't want that.
Use the money to buy fruits and vegetables. This should be your life goals from now. Don't drink or smoke forever.
Alcohol feels amazing when you got problems in life. Hope you got sober by now
I've been the strong one the months following my fathers death, I have held up my mother and brother through their most epic battles and have saved my own struggles for when I'm alone and can really focus on it. We all struggle from caregiver ptsd and watching a man go from I'm don't feel well May 20 to gone from this body June 10th 68 years old a cancer we never knew existed let alone as bad as it was and would have only 3 weeks left together. Our family has been through the worst now and I hope we can build something stronger back up
Whoever is reading this Just know that you are not alone. You may feel alone, but you are strong, and you will get through this. Make sure you take advantage of every opportunity you have to share time with loved ones. This existence isn't about acquiring material possessions although we get lost in that silliness sometimes......and while we get lost in that worthless quest for acquiring material possessions, years go by that you could have been spending time with loved ones....and once those loved ones are gone, your possessions won't be able to hold back the sadness and regret. Make every day counts instead and nurture relationships which will make you feel more whole.
i lost my mum today, even thinking about not having her in my life anymore hurts. it just hurts so much.
You are a wonderful person ❤and a great teacher, thank you 🙏
its like listening to butter in arabic
I just got confirmation that my grandma won't make it so she will pass away and it is all so unbelievable that this happened and then I lost someone I loved one month ago from now. This is much mroe painful, especially knowing that my grandma is the sweetest lady ever. I love you grandma and know that I'm always proud of how amazing you have been to me!!!❤
To anyone reading this hold on and keep going. We're never gonna get over it but we'll learn to deal with it better. Lost so much of my family these last 5 years. 2 years ago I lost my brother. 2 months ago I lost the love of my life. I'm still dealing with it but they wouldn't want me to give up. I'll see them again and I can't wait but people need me here. That should be enough. Don't be afraid to reach out. You're never alone!
My wife and high school sweetheart died in my arms Dec 20 2023, I'm broken and lost but if it wasn't for God and our kids I would be an alcoholic and had dove off the deep end....
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I'm here because I just lost my father last night. Our last interaction was an argument couple of weeks ago. I didn't visit him in the hospital, thinking it's just some minor undiagnosed pain. Didn't know it that would be his last weekend, just a week before his birthday on Saturday. It's so sad he will no longer hear my apologies. 😢 I whole heartedly believe I need a therapy, I'm losing it.
I lost my mother this morning. She wasn't even 50. I'll do my best to be someone who can be relied upon in a crisis.
Lost my little brother 3 days ago.. i miss him so much
My mother passed in 2008 when i was 6 my dad ignored us my mother ignored all the time during her death i was numb i don’t what to feel but now i feel miserable
lost my father this year he was a piece of work this man never let us know what was wrong. jokes til the end cried when he died then shed tears at his memorial service. he was my tokin and drinkin buddy I look back and realized years ago we had the death talk.... it was uncomfortable but a needed talk he didnt want people crying for him so on the day he died all my family was at my mothers house getting burning all different strains and shitfaced drunk. i felt like i was at the must magically delicious place on earth even seen my dad's spirit laughing and smilin then the next day it hit me he was gone that shit sobered ne up to spark up again and restart the ride i was a lite alcoholic for a couple if months smash thru 6 bottles of Henny in a week dont get me started on how many cases of stella and Heineken i went thru shit was crazy
Lost my father today 20th of August 2024. Thank you Jordan for giving me the courage to be a better person for my family
Tim NSara, Keep grinding!
I’m 25 and I’ve lost 3 people I love in the last 2 months (2 friends and 1 uncle). I have become so numb.
How can anyone attack this man, how the fuck could you dislike such a lovely, giving, kind soul.
I lost my father 16 August 2024. I am numb and I don't know what to process and how to let it sink in. I'm here in Canada and my mother denied me to visit as she did not want my career to have certain problems. I am not able to convince her to let me be there.
Lost my grandmother on the 14th. My world has shattered. But we must keep going. They wouldn’t want us to be upset like this. It’s time to honor them and be the best person you can be so you see them again some day.
My man sounds so high in this video
tell you youve never lost one without telling me.
@@kidgruesome407im not high enough for whatever that is supposed to mean
I’m losing my father who me has not been mentally present for a time. It’s hard to push through this after all the evil I have endured over last few years. I have no one to talk to. I am having a hard time finding relief. I hide at home because my temper goes up and down so much. I find that I’m angry and then I haven’t felt satisfied or safe for a long time. I’m lost…
I am here with you ❤
Bro
@@dzryad7400 thank you.
lost my dog in 2020, lost my mother march of 2024. you maybe lonely but you are NOT ALONE.
You can say you had a father growing up alot dont
My oldest son, age 37, died December 17, 2023 and as of last Saturday grief hit me like the proverbial Mack truck. I am grateful for Jordan Peterson and his encouragement and other people who can support me....of yet I am to find.
Remember them always. Think about them When you are alone, talk to them out loud too You are a part of them, and they were a part of you Can you go on? Yes And you must For they would want you to flourish and experience your own brief life to the fullest The high The lows I recommend joining a grief class You will not be alone in it Others are going through the same You should talk about these feelings, open them up, and learn to put them away again for another time I can’t hear a Stevie Nicks song or Emmy Lou Harris or Neil Diamond without thinking of her She loved that stuff And when I hear it on the radio or in a shopping center, it’s like she wants me to know she’s alright. I am sorry for your loss But they don’t feel sorry for you at all They loved you And you them So you need to get up and try to enjoy what little life we all have left
I was the strong daughter at my father funeral but 5 months after, I am angry at a point that I am losing everyone around me.....
My father Is my hero 😖
the greif is only hitting me after 7 months its so painful. i think it a good feeling its show the love for my mother
Two hucksters hawking the obvious
My 12 yr old little sister died earlier this year in march. She was the youngest out of 5 siblings and this was my first time EVER experiencing loss. Losing the youngest person in the entire family is unbelievable cause even my grandparents are still alive and well. Not saying I’d wanna lose my grandparents first, but it’s what’s expected vs the youngest. Still tryina make sense out of it till this day.
❤❤❤ Thank you as this video brings so much truth. I lost my son first, then a year and a day later my mother, then my dad 4 yrs ago. I have so much strength but I deal with grief with prayer and laughter. Yes, sadness comes often but I think of happy times when the pain becomes unbearable.
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