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Being Human In South Africa
South Africa
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 12 เม.ย. 2009
This channel presents a regular snapshot of how I experience my world.
WhatsApp saved me from the Narcissists in my life #whatsapp #narcissist #saved
Maybe narcissists always want to be right, even when they are wrong. Maybe they don’t want anyone around them to be better at something than them. Maybe they always want to undermine others.
But whatever it is, we need to know that when they contradict themselves, it is their problem and not ours.
And WhatsApp helped me to see the patterns of behavior that narcissists engage in, and WhatsApp helped me realize that I’m ok; I’m sane.
But whatever it is, we need to know that when they contradict themselves, it is their problem and not ours.
And WhatsApp helped me to see the patterns of behavior that narcissists engage in, and WhatsApp helped me realize that I’m ok; I’m sane.
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Ducks and baby ducks. Milnerton lagoon. Cape Town. During my morning walk.
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Ducks and baby ducks. Milnerton lagoon. Cape Town. During my morning walk.
Will the Bela Bill law help children find meaning work and help us all invent our future?
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My take on education, on why our education system has been designed as it has, and why it is failing, not only in South Africa.
The secret of faith
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Faith = Wisdom From the Tree of Life Knowledge from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil Malcolm Gladwell’s 10,000 hours that lead to intuition
The biggest problem with getting older.
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The biggest problem with getting older.
The biggest secret. What I’ve learned after reading 5,000 pages of Ancient Zohar Text over 4.5 years
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The biggest secret. What I’ve learned after reading 5,000 pages of Ancient Zohar Text over 4.5 years
The next 30 years in South Africa. Coalition politics. Covenant relationships. African Ubuntu.
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The next 30 years in South Africa. Coalition politics. Covenant relationships. African Ubuntu.
A wintery day in Cape Town. A message from Jerry, the owner of the Lighthouse Coffee Company
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A wintery day in Cape Town. A message from Jerry, the owner of the Lighthouse Coffee Company
The Jewish Mindset. Passover. Lockdown. Questions. The 4 sons.
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The Jewish Mindset. Passover. Lockdown. Questions. The 4 sons.
Secrets of complex software development
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Secrets of complex software development
Pouring our hearts out to a king and to The King. What do Purim and Yom Kippur have in common?
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Pouring our hearts out to a king and to The King. What do Purim and Yom Kippur have in common?
Narcissists and The Emotional Bank Account
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Narcissists and The Emotional Bank Account
The Volunteer deals with The Narcissist intuitively
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The Volunteer deals with The Narcissist intuitively
Motorcyclists and baseball bats and reaching meditation nirvana where almost everyone respects you
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Motorcyclists and baseball bats and reaching meditation nirvana where almost everyone respects you
I was praying for something special on 29th February and there are so many miracles in this video
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I was praying for something special on 29th February and there are so many miracles in this video
A motorcyclist’s nightmare. #dream #nightmare #wheresmyhelmut
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A motorcyclist’s nightmare. #dream #nightmare #wheresmyhelmut
Envy. What do we do with our thoughts?
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Envy. What do we do with our thoughts?
Compassion vs Judgement. My Christmas 2023 message.
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Compassion vs Judgement. My Christmas 2023 message.
Our purpose as Madiba’s South Africans
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Our purpose as Madiba’s South Africans
My/our journey. Process. Degree/Step. Cost of living. Quality of life.
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My/our journey. Process. Degree/Step. Cost of living. Quality of life.
City of Cape Town’s Embedded General rules could put small installers, electricians out of business
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City of Cape Town’s Embedded General rules could put small installers, electricians out of business
Textile automation in 1970, plus close circuit TV and one way glass. Memories of my father series.
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Textile automation in 1970, plus close circuit TV and one way glass. Memories of my father series.
The short but long road and the long but short road - detailed
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The short but long road and the long but short road - detailed
From your mouth to G_d's ears, my friend ... 🤗
How do we know they are a no narcissist? Is it that they have no empathy but only for themselves 🤔
Yes. They put themselves first (not necessarily a problem by itself) and don’t take the time to understand your feelings or problems.
Well said David
Hi David , this is very insightful..thanks for sharing
In our family too David. Too many people dying but at a very young age. Friends as well. Very sad.
Sorry to hear that.
ja swaar. But old age is not for sissies either.
I use to work with such people...😢
Thanks for your comment. It helps us all to understand that it's not just us.
It wasn’t early 2000, it was early 2020 when I was given the Aramaic Zohar.
🙏💜
🙏🙏🙏💜🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing. I hope you're feeling your emotions, and letting your light shine. My mom was similar, it's hard.
They're heart less. ....Without heart (in their chests).
You are someone who experienced that right in your personal space, but you have grown stronger and wiser dealing with that pain. That is how a blessing comes out of something otherwise bad. Your dad obviously had a very deep problem from something he could not deal with positively. Perhaps you were stronger than him??
100%, Jillian. I forgave my father a very long time ago. And yes, I am stronger now, but not because of him, but because of the immense amount of work and time that I've invested in making myself into the person I wanted to be. And interestingly my father went to boarding school and then he went to university in England, to study Textile Engineering and then he brought that knowledge back to the Textile Industry in South Africa in the early 1960s. I don't think he understood how to be part of a family. I'm sharing what happened to me and how I've overcome the odds so that others can benefit from my experience.
Coco Chanel was an orphan at the age of 12, but that didn’t stop her becoming one of the greatest fashion designers the world has ever seen. As well as the little black dress, she also created costume jewelry.
Coco Chanel was an orphan at the age of 12, but that didn’t stop her becoming one of the greatest fashion designers the world has ever seen. As well as the little black dress, she also created costume jewelry.
I am also optimistic of change in having a coalition party. They will be forced to go back ad relook their beliefs and values. They will compromise on issues they need to agree on regarding taking South Africa to a better place
Just be a good human....
Baseball early in the video should be Baseball Bat.
Voice of Jerry Finley, the owner
In 1968, Elvis said something similar. Listen to the words: “caught in a trap, I can’t walk out” th-cam.com/video/aRrUPGdrbf8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=4L434sDKiOzr9BUA
Wow, that's really interesting
Sorry about the mistake where I mentioned Moses instead of Abraham re Sodom and Gomorrah. Thanks to the people who watched the video and pointed this out to me.
Very good David I agree with you whole heartedly
So you want to start saying no to politicians?
They say no to us. That’s how they keep their jobs for so long. But yes. We pay the politicians. They work for us.
@@BeingHumanInSouthAfrica when you're a good person and you have a good soul saying no is very difficult to do.. it's usually people like us that get taken advantage of because we don't say no to people. I'm with you on your message here dude!
man, stay in your bed. The world is a savage
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God is an evil , thoughtless concept.
Deep ✨
Yes. Decades of thinking, reading, and discussions. And what I call a Glipse during a discussion last night. My definition of a Glipse is when you have clarity about a complex subject - a tiny bit of enlightenment.
I agree with you on this one David.
Thank you for sharing. Beautiful knowledge....understanding and learning. God bless you. 🙏🥰
Thank you Jillian.
God bless
Grey rock. Greyrocking. Ignoring the narcissists in our lives: th-cam.com/users/shortsqf9w26qG12w?si=DTtLzlX2i9adD2vj
In this scenario, I’m a Flying Monkey: th-cam.com/users/shortsTV0KH3rgkZ8?si=gwWKn9iGHfUnBxy9
Definition: gaslighting: th-cam.com/users/shortsh8HRpyH7Db0?si=LtVjjFEMM2sFCenW
Well done David. We love you. ❤️
I would like for us to be friends- I need help
Hi Please look at my notes, read and watch and then ask me questions and I’ll try to help. narcissist narcotic www.quora.com/How-does-a-narcissist-react-if-you-tell-them-that-you-have-hit-your-limit-with-them thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2016/06/20-diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you/ kimsaeed.com/2020/08/12/how-to-make-a-narcissist-miserable-12-things-they-hate/ Human Behaviour Books www.hookedtobooks.com/best-psychology-books-on-human-behavior/ Some other interesting videos th-cam.com/video/nTLGqyUUsX4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=1hj2GpkWjTtsoJcX th-cam.com/video/nTLGqyUUsX4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=1hj2GpkWjTtsoJcX th-cam.com/video/8h2xuuxWIKk/w-d-xo.htmlsi=-dDzN5S8Voe_fpGl and Sam Vaknin’s excellent book th-cam.com/video/EYtibMbpa3M/w-d-xo.htmlsi=taqMXjCIQDQbTUpd And Darren Magee th-cam.com/video/4HMcJw97nJ8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=iZ9Xebc0IVUjXhWp And Dr Ramani Flying Monkeys th-cam.com/video/qEH23q1r-4Q/w-d-xo.htmlsi=PdqCpaVaB85h0yIE Gaslighting th-cam.com/video/lLsH2NJD1Vo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Sp9AzVjCnk3zxcSp
My lovely Sir🥲 I just want to wrap you in a warm blanket, and give you hot tea, and love💜 From my heart to yours, you are seen❤❤💚
Thanks Olivia.
@@BeingHumanInSouthAfrica I see you too, David 💖💖
I am currently the victim of one.
Thanks for sharing
Just a note that my father never read the book I gave him on my 40th birthday. Unfortunately. Maybe he's reading the book in heaven.
Promo-SM 😡
The parking fairy story just popped up on my Facebook Memories The Parking Fairy:- Have you heard of the parking fairy? You know. You need a parking in town. Five minutes before you get where you are going, you say "Good morning parking fairy. I'm looking for a parking outside Rocksole in Wale Street." Guess what, when you get there, there is a parking place for you. Every time! Why? It's about what you focus on... And here is the science The RAS, Reticular Activation System: th-cam.com/video/QCnfAzAIhVw/w-d-xo.html
Here is a follow up video a day later th-cam.com/video/-SKAWqRyFPI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=X4OKnHflGz1Ybltk
Wow that's awesome
plus 60 seconds of rain just now.
More here : th-cam.com/video/cuapO3vsdnw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=AJAEheo0DmDLw3JD
Well said David,thank you.
25 years ago Thomas Sowell spoke about Envy: th-cam.com/video/XLzo2Hol6ic/w-d-xo.htmlsi=UkslJMliVxW2iB5v
God Bless 🙏
Thank you David:) U learned so much from Eckhardt Tolle, Prof Walter Veith and Nealle Donald Walsch. I have just added you to that list❤
Thank you David Wishing u and everyone a beautiful blessed time. Thank you for sharing wisdom. I see u and I feel u. Love love love❤❤❤