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so relatable

Since so many days im confused with my skills, today evening i started thinking that i do enjoy many things, i don't have to stuck for one thing, your video popped up all of sudden as a god's indication without searching anything in TH-cam. Thank you dear❤

Agreed. Self care should move beyond confines of aesthetics. In fact, real self care is rooted inside mental serenity. For me, it stems from having the "concept of enough". Knowing exactly how much I want by having clarity between "needs" & "luxuries", not comparing myself to others, not shifting the goal post when tempted and understanding difference between what I can control and what I can't, are the bindings that helps in maintaining personal equilibrium.

In the words of Tyler Durden Baba-- "Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need". @06:23 i felt so guilty aur jabki mene to aisa kuch kiya bhi nahi. i was almost about to cry but then my phone rang and i came back to my senses. you turned into a grumpy Grandma right there. Alright Sit back i have a story to tell you. Once upon a time there was this guy who lost most of his hair during Covid and he was devastated (thinking i can't become anupam kher at 30), so he did some research since he couldn't ask for help due to lockdown. Then he decided to go natural instead of using chemicals or OTC meds.. After centuries of deep research in the harsh caves of Himalaya, he stumbled upon this idea of making radical changes to his diet and also use onion juice as a catalyst and voila in the span of just few weeks he saw the hair coming back. Seeing these magical results his mother and sister also tried, and they confirmed that it works. Today he has bunch of frostbites but hey atleast he got his hair back.. he will release a video about this journey as soon as he figures out the way back home. Anyway A huge part of my self care is this really interesting and incredible thing called WATER. Drink it, wash with it. I mean its amazing And inexpensive. I feel its useless to do anything with your skin other than bathing and moisturizing because the real selfcare happens from inside. You make few changes to manage your free radicals in the body and eat more unprocessed food rich in anti-oxidants and you will be fine. Add a little bit of excersice on top of this and you're already a god. Sweat is the best face/body wash in the world (NOTE- has to be your own). I really don't think that our skin absorbs all these artificial chemicals we apply in the name of cosmetics, sure maybe few upper layers of the skin but thats it, your immune system will kick in the moment it detects foriegn objects. What people really need to do is, pick a book and read about thier own body, the how, what and why, and then use your own intelligence to decide what is good for you. We got this awesome machinery that we live inside but none of us really bothers to read the user manual. so good food-- plenty of water-- excercise-- good sleep-- low stress levels etc-- and patience. if nothing works then you can always try good old FAIR & LOVELY

great observation

Brands do the survey and based on that they get the data from active consumers so they give to the Influencers that's why they target the exact pain points in the video ad or copy. That force the consumer to but it anyhow. I know it because we also do the same thing 😂 Now a days - influencer marketing is giving the high ROI

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They say: "Jack of all trades, master of none". I still haven't fully figured out whether I agree or disagree with the statement. But I was thinking, as children when we are exposed to different things and ideas, we become fascinated by it or at the least we are more encouraging and accepting of "new" ideas. And then parents encourage it, they enroll children in different learning programs to help them find their "one true calling". But as you said, is it an adult problem? Are we so desperate to put people into boxes and label them, that we are afraid that many boxes would create a confusion? Is it not the beauty of life that we can be whoever we want to be at whatever stage you want to be? Like at ten, I wanted to be a doctor and now at twenty I want to be a writer, a businesswoman, a better human being, a chef and a reader. So many options and so much to dabble from. Then, I think society is more inclined towards pushing individuals to a streamlined single path and not let them stray. Doesn't it help you focus more better rather than being engaged in different streams? I think so I'll also make your new year resolution mine too: Consume less and create more. Get to know myself better too, I'll add this one to the list too. And Kanwal coming from someone who is a serial "yapper", I believe the world can learn so much from our wisdom so keep it coming. Looking forward to your essay video. Do tell me your thoughts. P.S: I also really love reading your replies. With warmth, Your avid viewer

its a feeling of awe when you connects two different topics which wasn't connected before. Nothing can match that

Really would like to listen to your thoughts!

I can not write long comment since i read 2 big essays i mean comments of "Alien" and "Pakistan Zindabad" so no more argument long story short "i'm a generalist" 😅

I guess my vote goes to generalists, as your ability to unlearn & relearn, explore new avenues and find connections within various disciplines assist you in broadening your mental canvas. Moreover I have a theory that Experts are just "Focused Generalist" who have found a new way of looking at something, as Arthur Schopenhauer said "....Talent hits a target no one else can hit. Genius hits a target no one else can see." Hence my deduction is that becoming a generalist is first step in carving a niche for yourself in a desired field. Like to become an effective social scientist you need to have knowledge of history, anthropology, economy, political science, mass communication, philosophy etc. Even in learning martial arts, one who really stands out are ones having intimate knowledge of nutrition, physiology, psychology etc. In short, first you gather relevant knowledge from different fields, than you sift & connect it and lastly you keep pushing your mental faculties to arrive at "eureka" moment. Even baji in your case if you observe, all the areas you named are deeply interconnected. Your inclination towards art should help you in organising the abstract ideas into something beautiful and productive, a skill that is relevant for making visual videos, making visual videos which is helpful in improving communication, communication which is quintessential for teaching and so the cycle goes.

first 3 minutes in your video and i was like ahaa i see. I have thought about it before and its very conflicting you know whether to be very good at something specific or keep a broad perspective? Just yesterday i was watching a video by Veritasium on experts/sepcialists and it explained the magnitude of work and repitition it takes to be an expert. So it got me thinking, what an incredible psychological prison it must be to keep your curiosity locked on just one thing. Now there is no right or wrong here. my argument is, for specific specialisations we already have computers and with AI getting better exponentially very soon we will have task specific systems in place which would be far better than any human on repetitive tasks.. I am definitely a Generalist and i wouldn't trade it for anything. I can't just be my job, I love singing, i love Astronomy, biology, psychology, I love learning about brain, i'm a Lucid dreamer, a stargazer, a (self-proclaimed) pizza expert, I enjoy training AI models, i love telling stories, i love writting even though i suck at it. I feel the greatest ideas and extraordinary inventions will always come from generalists. We humans are great at being wrong and thats the beauty of it. most, if not all of our greatest breakthough happened because of our mistakes and how do you make a mistake? by not being a specialist and having a wider perspective, The very nature of a human mind is to ask questions about everything, looking for patterns even if there isn't any (all those green aliens). Think about Einstein or Newton. They were really good at physics however that wasn't enough, their capabilities to think like an artist, to visualise their concepts and use their imagination in conjuction with their specialty in physics led us to the world we live in today. So i maybe wrong here but i think having a different POV at things is really a specialty we human posses and it would be so wrong to suppress that.. again we definitely need specialists for deeper and more focused understanding but a little masala will always make it... well, TASTIER. I hope the above rant doesn't make you a specialist..

So tell me which one do you think you are or aspire to be?

Relatable even my friends have pointed out that I abandoned many things just because I didn't enjoy it anymore

I guess more than profit, we are concerned about endorsement by others. As encouragement of others is instrumental in cementing viability of our passion. Wanting a monetary outcome is a sub-branch of that instinct. However in my opinion, as long as passion is rooted in deep sense of self-fulfillment and makes you feel alive at a personal level, it's worth it. We should not become victim of "spectator's acknowledgement". As in a movie when Vincent Van Gogh was told that his art is not worth it as it is not liked by people he replied "....maybe God made me a painter for people who aren't born yet."

It was more like face time with a friend and thanks to YT for recommending this video

You are a great artist - nice stuff mene pehly nhi dekha tha apka IG page. And business ki videos dekhna bora nhi i think because they share there knowledge and experience. At the end they show the clear picture and roadmap what can be or not. But initially i can relate with you information overload ho jati then overthinking you know... Aur advice hameshe parents se leni chahiye they wouldn't care even this heart you or not. Will get the honest opinion tbh. Even they don't have the exact answer they can give the better direction. I always do this and it works for me. And off course ho field me specialist hy wo better bta skta hy. Achi video thi overall.

Hey Kanwal, I would like to tell you that your content resonates with me so much. It feels like you are talking directly to me. Your videos are a warm hug and great mood booster. I am watching this at 5 in the morning and trust me after having a really low day, this brightened up my mood. You are correct about not “ghasait-ing” your family and friends into your pet passion project. I myself started podcasting as a way to understand myself and acquire new experiences. Yet, only very few close people know about it because I agree with your point that you should share something once you are absolutely perfect at it and think you are providing value. You asked about something that I always think about, I think it has always been makeup. For me, it is an art, a medium to show creativity. While watching your video, I was actively debating myself that no I cannot thrust myself into a new territory considering I am halfway studying something else. Yet, I braced myself and thought only I am the one holding myself back. Maybe I should try and experience it. What’s the worst that can happen? Failure? It’s not like I’ll be the first person to fail. Kanwal one question after such a detailed comment, even though I have started experimenting, why do i feel like an imposter? Why am I not content being mediocre or below average in the beginning? How do you beat the fear of perfection from beginning? In the end, Kanwal love your content, art, thumbnail. Please keep posting. Sincerely, An avid viewer.

Nye shauq ka Honeymoon phase 😂

Today i realised how bad my OCD is, i kept saying in my head -- TAKE A SIP ALREADY!!! Yes you're right, we live too much inside our head thinking about the consequences and outcomes. Action is more important otherwise planning is nothing but a sophisticated form of daydreaming. Like someone said - the first step to win a race is to be in it. That someone was me.. shayad. Also please never stop posting, i mean not aleast for next 100 years or so

kya baat hai,,, arey suna kya disney waale dhundh rahe hai tumhe.. they are like we want an animator right now specifically you. jokes aside, it looks cute.

TH-cam version of "Taare Zameen Par".

Nice editing 😅

Funny thing - I was thinking about you and you uploaded this video

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Your thoughts are really inspring, please keep sharing!

Yeah I relate to this so much. I'm also very quick at abondaning but I feel if I did put it out without overthinking i think I have some great stories and experiences to share but obviously they stay in my mind now 😅

That's a great way to look at life in general. "fear & desire" , makes you wonder how many brilliant ideas and thoughts never saw the light of the day. Yes i would love to hear more from your journal, and BTW that black one looks amazing, I want one of those..

Old hag getting mad for her own life choice. Classic

Hi Kanwal. Yes indeed it was very thought provoking.Please read your journal.

"Haul of thoughts" haha

Great greattt piece of work....... The only dope hits me when i workout and complete my goals towards becoming administrator.... Still picked up a job just today in PW getting the offer letter, so that there's no time left for feelings or emo. Sorry for long comment tho.

i know that u are just yapping but at last u are a girl a 7,10 girl so one day u also start getting viral

u know you are beautiful

You know what, idk you, I was feeling bad about some work that was to be done and yet I was not able to do it because I was not feeling good about it, and boom I clicked on this video, now I know, anything important needs to be done should be done without feeling good.. maybe my thoughts manifested this video to come to me, you got a new subscriber! Thanks.

heyy want a review in depth what did you find to be useful.

please make something for like how to deal with “relationship” feelings ?

Ohh my.. thank you so much for taking time and talking about this. yeah you're right how would you know if you don't ever try. well thank you. and for that one thing, what keeps me up at night generally is the sheer curiosity about us about the universe. I read whatever i can, I try to understand the concepts to the best of my abilities even if i have to give it multiple tries since science isn't my background. I want to grasp everything about the very existence, the world we live in, the mechanism of how time and space works, right from the quantum realm all the way up to the observable cosmos. I want to find the answer to why is it that matter came together and under what circumstances it became alive and why did matter arrange itself in such intricate ways to create consciousness. I want to know where we live in this cosmos and whats our place, and do we have neighbours and if we do how similar or different they are from us, the way we define life right now is it the only form of life that exists, why do we have these specific laws of physics , what was there before the beginning of time and well you get the idea... my problem is what do i do with this, how do i pursue this further. I mean if i were to leave everything else that i do to make a living which is honestly really boring though i make good money, how do i incorporate this in my career. This lack of clear direction is what's holding me back.. again thanks a lot for taking time, i am gonna download this one as a reminder... much love!!

I got your point

What accent you speaking? From where you living...

that imagination wala happens with me too THEEK. Like in my imagination i have solved the world conflict THEEK, Have revamped the entire financial system and world economy THEEK, stopped aging by gene modification THEEK, won two noble prizes because one wasn't enough THEEK. BTW chaai me bhot core value hai,, how dare you say that??? I suspect involvement of coffee here.. much love THEEK

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Hello Kanwal. I discovered ur channel recently. Ur videos giving me a lot of clarity. Loving ur videos a lot. N.... Yeah.... U look very sweet n beautiful. All the wishes from India. Take care

Who edit your video? And what is your subject in research paper

here i am again watching your yet other video and getting to start working Your videos working as mirror Thanks for putting this raw videos out their, it feels like inner me talking to me which i mostly ignore and avoid doing things and procrastination

Ah it works - what about reminding yourself of the end goal for that particular task? Like in my case, I need to do outreach (even though it feels cringe to message random people). But in doing so I get to identify their problem and solve it by offering our service. Ultimately, the goal is to close the deal - whether it's for $750 or more.

you again???? dude that sound effect after the word IGNORED scared the living shit out of me.. no headphones from now on.. ok well you're right, i guess its the constant self doubt, self judgement because in the end it doesn't really matter what others say about you, Whether you have a support system or not but if you don't believe in the person that you are its gonna be very difficult. now there is a very thin line in believing yourself and going insane. To me its not about feeling good rather making sense out of things... Me itna gyaan kyu de raha hu, mujhe to khud help ki zarurat hai. keep going girl!!!

Your videos always come to me at the right time.

I see myself in you