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Thank you for this video🙏Can you bring any manifest coaches on next?

Love this, thank you Nicky!

You’re right, it's a fact that quitting booze not only makes your world a better place to be in, good things start to “magically” happen and the energy is insane! Steffon Barkload's stuff, that’s the best shortcut I go’ogled that took less than a week to work without suffering withdrawal.

"what we crave tells us what kind of emotion we're trying to escape from, numb, or comfort" is a huge connection piece. When food becomes a crutch to compensate for how we're feeling and what we don't want to feel the habit doesn't get disrupted/broken until we acknowledge and investigate the source of the emotion. Such a great conversation and approach Madeleine has shared here! <3<3

Was literally googling attachment styles when Nicky’s podcast on attachment came across my FB, great timing! 🎉💫

Thank you for our beautiful conversation and for the love and light that you are spreading in the world.

It is such an honor to be in community with you Nicky! Thank you for all that you are doing to spread the messages of unity and healing. It’s so important right now. I will continue to follow the work you are doing to connect us all! Thank you! -Jasper 🌕🌲

Thank you so much for having me, this was such a great conversation - you had so many wonderful questions!

This is wonderful, thank so much for sharing this as I learned a lot ❤

It was so great to be interviewed by you, Nicky. I LOVED our conversation! Thanks again!

Beautiful conversation, thank you ladies!

What a powerful story!

Great conversation. Thank you so much, this is quality time.

WOW POWERFUL

Thank You Sasha and your Hostess, intetesting😊

What a beautiful, raw, and insightful conversation! For anyone who is hearing the call to this work, this podcast would be very helpful to de-mystify ceremony and how this medicine helps one to heal trauma and old wounds, and also helps to debunk this healing method as being quick-fix. Thank you!

I really value all the conversations you bring to the table through this podcast. I have been exploring the idea of becoming a death doula & this put so much joy to perspective for me! Thank you!! 🙏🏼💖✨

Let’s be real for a moment. In all this asinine ideology, the truth is no matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, no matter how what you give up, you’ll never escape the fact that you are cis and white and therefore never truly payoff the debt of your original sin.

I FUCKING LOVED THIS!!! I really admire you for embracing a controversial conversation, consciously. It felt so authentic. I valued your thoughtful questions. Thank you for sharing this perspective, one that’s not often seen. And thank you for challenging our minds to expand to new perceptions. & I appreciated the info that Dr Alan Mueller spoke about Tulsa. It put so much together for me. I used to live in Tulsa & there was so much white supremacy.

The Connected Communist.

Your entire movement is losing its footing. No one has the patients or tolerance for you self hatred and unapologetic racism.The hole just got 10 feet deeper people.

How priviledged do you have to be to talk about stupid things like this, when most people just want to work hard and survive 🤣 Stop.

The comments section gives me faith in humanity. These racists are disgusting.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with having a caucasian skin color & cultural heritage. There's not a single type of people on this planet who would have done bad things as an entire race. Individuals, groups and governments do evil things but it's never an entire race that is responsible. If you think otherwise, you are under the effects of really vile propaganda, the like used by Nazi Germany back in the day. And it is being used today for the same purposes.

1,000 views. 8 likes. 90 comments. None of them supporting you. (well..maybe 8) I wonder if you if possess the ability to consider what this means. Probably not. Too much white privilege.

intersectionality and its consequences...

Whackos who hate them selves never drink the flavor aid.

I pray to God that these two aren't reproducing.

No such thing as cis. You people are delusional

Here's a nice fact for these types, of the 3 large racial groups in America, white, black, hispanic, only whites, as a group, are putting more into the system then they get out, as a group, not as any individual. The entire libtard premise is based on the utterly false assumption that all groups of people are equal in capabilities.

Foolish me, I thought from the title this might be about white people pushing back on the unfair hate and discrimination being levelled against us .... Instead its the white supporters of these policies, here to wallow in their white guilt

I'm not convinced this stuff is going to make the world better.

Is this real? I thought this was a parody. Wow, they actually believe that immutable characteristics are an important element to their daily choices in life. Unreal. "Good day audience, I'm a white heterosexual cisgender he/they male who has immense privilege that I can't define, and I'm here to tell you that you are a victim"

Thanks white saviors

My ancestors conquered the world, I’m proud of it. What did yours do? 😂😂😂🤦‍♂️

One can only think they have white privilege, if they believe that white people are a superior race. This is basically pushing white supremacist ideology. See the thing about all racial supremacists of all races is, they try to install racial hierarchies and classify different races with levels of privilege, which they later use to segregate and discriminate people based on their skin color. The only difference is which race is on the top of that racial hierarchy. If you are teaching your race that they must humble themselves and lower themselves to accommodate other races, you are announcing to the world that you recognize your race as a superior race.

It is a privilege to be white.

Look I don't care if you're black, brown, normal or even Bosnian. Can't we just all get along?

Notice it’s never the blue collar white people talking about privilege. You’re peddling nonsense. If you want to go through life being convinced a physical characteristic defines behavior, be my guest. You’re in good company. It was a mindset popularized by the klan. It makes me sad that you might have children you’re indoctrinating along the same mindset to feel guilty for existing The tide is turning. People are tired of the race baiting nonsense. If you want to go through life manufacturing guilt si you can get your virtue fix, great. Just don’t expect smooth sailing when you want to spread your make believe world to others

Cis is a vile slur used by bigots.

Just imagine your life being so damned easy that you can walk around seriously fretting about if you watched a movie this week with enough 2SLGBTQIAA+ representation. Maybe if "dr." mueller wants to get his feet wet in some real academia worthy of the title, he could read Yascha Mounk's The Identity Trap, assuming someone who was probably a DEI admin at a college can read.

Imagine being so weak as a person that you go out of your way to hate yourself, and teach others to hate themselves, for no other reason than the color of skin/gender/sexuality you were born with, just to appease people who also hate you for the color of your skin/gender/sexuality. They don't actually care if you debase yourself, they just look down on you for it. It's pathetic, and it looks pathetic

What funny is if you read anything written in the 19th century you come across the term the white mans burden , this was pushed by do gooder anti slavery people who felt it was our duty to raise up the African from cannibalism and slavery and human sacrifice. It was total paternalism, and using empire to push that paternalism. The amusing thing now the same type of people who back then would have been vicars , or virtue signaling spinsters . Now attack us for colonialism and white privilege the same old grift

One of my favorite interview responses ever was from Coleman Hughes, who is, in my opinion, the best young writer in politics today, not merely the best black writer or best writer on race issues. Following Roland Fryer's work, Coleman has argued that police shootings are not statistically motivated by race - the data - and the dramatic examples of police violence routinely cited are mirrored in white victims - the stories. He additionally advocates for color blind policies, as in a Ted Talk he recently gave whose promotion was curtailed due to complaints from folks like these. (It was only released on the condition he debate someone with an opposing view, something I think unique to his talk.) That's the background. So in an interview, he's asked about the allegation that white people listen to him in order to assuage their guilt. I can't find the exact response, so this is my less eloquent paraphrase: "If white people listen to me to absolve a sense of guilt, then I'm glad. They shouldn't feel guilty for wrongs they didn't commit. They don't deserve to feel miserable over things they have no control over. There's a long-standing push, coming from elite institutions and being shoved downward, to make white people feel collective guilt. If I can do something to counter that, I consider that to be good."

Whiteness = anti white Racism So if I’m getting this video correct Racism will only end with more racism.

Grow up

Y’all are crazy….

White should be the default they are the majority of this country

Lol. I use to believe in this crap. I’m a white guy who grew up in France and then New York, where I attended NYU and even marched in Gay Pride parade and volunteered in a soup kitchen. Later, I started working in HR and became a very successful recruiter, fully embracing DEI and really made an effort to support the hiring of minorities and LGBTQ+ people. But then about 10 years ago, I started to see a change. The minorities we had hired had become more empowered, which we of course saw as a good thing. But the it started to snowball, as some of these now empowered people entered leadership roles they not only started hiring more people like themselves, but then turned around and started firing people who were NOT like them, especially white males. Covid really accelerated this. In 2021 I worked at an online learning company that totally cleaned house. Most white males in leadership / decision-making roles were pushed out and replaced with black, Hispanic or LGBTQ team members. It was getting weird, but I tried to embrace as I occasionally sensed a sort of reverse racism, where people would allow themselves to say things that seemed mean and vengeful. Yet I continued to take pride in being an Ally. Until the day came when our team hired a new admin-a jovial black girl with a head full of dreads. As she sat in a separate area from us, I worried that she might feel left out, so I made an effort to say hello, goodbye and just make casual chitchat when I would see her. She seemed receptive to it. I definitely wasn’t hitting on her (I’m much older, married, grown kids etc.). One day she showed up with a new hairdo. Her dreads had been dyed bright red and was in a very elaborate updo. I was genuinely impressed and said so. “Wow! That looks awesome! I love your new hairdo.” She smiled and seemed pleased. Well, imagine my surprise when the next day I was called into a meeting with my new boss and a representative of our HR employee relations team. (Note: my previous boss-a red-headed white Irish guy-had recently been fired and replaced by a very flamboyant gay guy-which was weird because my former boss had been incredibly inclusive, including having also been married to a black woman for 20 years, with whom he had helped raise their two daughters). So we were called into this meeting with Employee Relations and were genuinely surprised when we were told that our admin had lodged a complaint against me, claiming that she felt that my compliments were a form of “micro aggression” and that my interactions were making her feel uncomfortable. I was told to CEASE interacting with her! I was like, “Whar!?! Where is the inclusivity and support of diversity in that!?!” And, no surprises, a few weeks later I was let go! That was the moment I realized that the world had basically gone insane, and that DEI had simply ended up empowering and facilitating a new form of Racism. So long story short, this guy in the video can continue to glorify DEI and do everything he can to support it and entertain the other people that he works with, but I can already relate to the pain and disappointment that he’ll be feeling the day they turn on him. Which I can guarantee WILL happen. Anyway, after that, I decided to move with my family to Sweden, and am grateful to now be living in a country where it’s still okay to be white and simply relax and enjoy white culture without fear of offending anyone. Of course there are growing DEI initiatives here too, but for now it’s more about including women, gays and the few minorities they have here, but hopefully they’ll keep it at that. Not sure what to do about the U.S. though. Sadly, I think white culture will be forced to die off, with the tables turned and white people being the minority “aw shucks” crowd, forever having to apologize for being white and all the “bad” things they supposedly did in the past. DEI was made mainstream because of all the white people who supported it and made it possible, got the sad truth is they’ll never get the credit and appreciation for it that they deserve.

Why own whiteness when you can own people?